Married Men?

Question

What does it mean to ya'll when a married man still flirts with other women?

Answer 1

It means that he still have a libido/sex drive

And if he goes farther, that he's not getting what he needs at home

Answer 2

Depends on the level of flirting entirely. Some men will seek whatever they are missing in their relationship elsewhere (be it companionship or sex). Be do not be tricked, some just want to shop "off the menu" and will rarely commit to you (despite what they say). Even if they did leave their spouse for you, would not you always wonder if they will leave you as well.
Draw a line in the sand and do not ever "hook up" with a married person if you think that will bring them to you. It won't, at least not long term.

Answer 3

If a married man still flirts with other women then he is truly not in love with his wife. Somewhere he feels or maybe is lacking every ting that he desired in a woman from his wife. With that mentality he will eventually cheat on his wife and the cycle will continue until she finds out or he is just completely tired of her and then end result will be alot of hurt and a divorce. Marriage is not for everyone and alot of times people rush in to things that they are not really ready for or for all the wrong reasons.

Answer 4

Some men do it for fun only, they don't go further than just verbal flirting. This is the case when they flirt just to be sure they still can make hearts melt if they want to. That other women find him attractive and interesting, too, not only his wife. But he does it just to assure himself about this. Others do it cause for them all women are the same, wife is for taking care of him and households and good sex and flirting must be with outsiders only. I consider those men retarded. So there are 2 categories: the intelligent men and retarded ones...

Answer 5

It depends on what his wife thinks. My husband can be flirty all he wants, with my friends and people I trust, but I get uncomfortable if there is someone who I think might have feelings for him, or if there is someone who doesn't like me (or vice versa). So I draw the line there.

If he is flirty even though his wife has asked him not to be...then he is at least a little bit disrespectful. If you are the one he's flirting with, I wouldn't read too much into it. If he wants more than a friendship with someone who isn't his wife, he'll make his intentions clear but personally I don't see anything wrong with just a little bit of flirting.

Answer 6

It means he's a bit of a jerk, but some married men flirt and it never goes farther than that. If he's flirting with someone in front of his wife, that's just rude and thoughtless. He'd definitely be in the jerk category then.

Answer 7

People are always going to LQQK at other people, of the opposite sex. It's only human. Maybe flirt a little, if they run into someone , that they find attractive. It makes them feel good. Now...if it goes any further than that...that's when it would become a problem. That doesn't mean that they do not love their spouse--it's the "Feeling," of the Freedom, of "Feeling Free."
As long as they do not go any further than the
"Feeling," I guess you can consider that 'The Creme of Nature...

Answer 8

I was a big flirt myself and I can tell you from my point of view. He is insecure about what he has. And he wants to to convince himself that he still has the ability to wiesel his way into another womans pants. He cannot be trusted. You are not everything to him. He is still searching for something or someone. He needs to stop and realize that there are no other women out there that are more important in his life. Than YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

some men have natuarl instinct to flirt weither there married are not thats there, cant be help, its a different thing when they act upon there flirtin also single women should not take it serious its a game most married men will throw a bone but wont go fetch it...??

Answer 10

Maybe he's just being friendly... perhaps he has ego / self-esteem issues and feels he has something to prove or maybe he wants you to slap him silly, storm off and throw all of his stuff on the lawn before he gets home?! *L*

All kidding aside, you can address this problem quite easily. Say very firmly "This hurts my feelings and is damaging to our relationship." If he won't stop, then you have to decide if you're going to put up with it or divorce him.

Answer 11

Depends on the flirting. There's innocent flirting, and then there is sexual flirting with intent to fool around.

Innocent flirting is fine. With intent to fool around means he is not going to stay true to his wife.