I have told my boyfriend how i really feel about him n the last pass week i thought maybe he will change and start calling me and wanna see me more now since he know he is bout to leave and go to college in flordia.but i still got to call him even though he barley answer my phone calls.i ask him have i did anythng wrong and he told me no.so i really dont understand what the deal is and all he care about is being in the projects,smoking,and hanging out with his friends sometimes i wonder is im getting played but he say it aint like that.but people be telling him lies bout me that aint even must true.he told me how he felt about me but sometimes i wonder do he mean it r not.i was a virgin to i met him i lost my virginty on him bout 4 months ago and we have been dating 6 months now.now n about 2 more weeks he will be leaving and going to college but i dont know i want to stay with him r not cause he might find somebody else up there but i dont want to lose him.
2006-07-17 05:12:41 · 8 answers · asked by T.T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, get some self-esteem somewhere. Is there someone older you can talk with about the way you feel about yourself?
Second, you are more than just a sex playmate. This guy seems to be acting like that's what you are to him.
(Please tell me you're using safe sex and birth control!)
2006-07-17 05:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have a bad habit. They don't like to clue you in on the big picture. Like where you fit into the scheme of things known as their life. He might be feeling stressed because of entering college. Might be something else, too. It probably has absolutely nothing to do with you and your relationship to him. Just ask him general questions. As in how he feels about going off to college and such. You'll get an answer and he won't feel as if you're trying to pressure him.
2006-07-17 12:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh.....yes, you are being played. He got laid and you got played. If he were still interested, he would be calling you. Let it go and learn from this experience. You virginity meant nothing to him. He's figuring on new women and new experiences. You can't do a thing about it. Get over it and next time you find a boyfriend, keep your pants on and make sure he respects you. this guy doesn't
2006-07-17 12:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting way too involved...you should not get serious with a guy until you're at least 25. You are going to continue to evolve and so will he. Odds are you wont have any of the same interests when you get older. Just grow up have fun and live your life how you want.
2006-07-17 12:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he may be playing you but there is the possibility that he is trying to get focused on school and not so much on you...time will tell...in the mean time do something that will busy you and maybe take your mind off of it for awhile
2006-07-17 12:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't know what's going on out there, but if you aren't a virgin and it's because of him, i think you must like him alot, so if i were you just wait and keep on calling him so you guys don't lose touch!
2006-07-17 12:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by hmm.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him that u don't care about him any more. may be he would know what he will loose.because any boy will die to have a caring girl to love him like you .if he doesn't want to continue leave him .you deserve a better person to care about you
2006-07-17 12:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by susu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he feels unconnected to you because of not seeing each other.
i did exactly what he is doing before, i hate myself for it. find out whats going on and try to do your best to keep him with you, unless you have a good reason not to.
2006-07-17 12:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋