I want to divorce my wife, but in a very small way, I still love her. We don't talk anymore, and she seems mad at me all the time. I want to make love to her, but she's not receptive. I don't know what to do...I don't think counciling will help either. I don't want to seperate cause I worry about her...What should I do..Help me decide please.
2006-07-17 05:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by GeorgieBoy 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
So Divorce!
2006-07-17 06:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
DO NOT call her again or give her any time in your mind. Keep your priorities straight as a man when going through this. Likely divorce is going to cost you more financially than mentally. Remember that she is not receptive for a reason! Get it done and over with and DON'T waste your time, money and emotions on a dead horse. Don't rush into another disaster either, take your time and see whats out there. Take good care of yourself first.
2014-08-30 12:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how most people feel before a divorce. You should still go through with it if you feel it is all you can do. There may always still be some love for her in your heart, or you may find that once she is gone from your life, you don't miss her. I found that I don't miss my ex-husband at all, but it was still a tough decision to finally just leave.
2006-07-17 12:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Olive Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her and let her know you are willing to start again and get to know your bestfriend but you cannot tolerate the emotional blackmail games and will not let her impose her will on you by being mad at you all the time, you are not to walk on eggshells to please each other and need to stop taking each other for granted and think about this, was your whole marriage a lie, if not work it out, marriage is hard work that both of you made a commitment to do,and respect is a must, if you do not have this or cannot cultivate it, your marriage is over
2006-07-17 12:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you have to earn your way out of a marriage. Suggest counseling to your wife. The counselor is only a mediator -- therapist, clergy. It up to the two of you to do the work. She may be struggling with the same feelings as you.
2006-07-17 12:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what the problem is and find a way to fix. A way that you both can come to an agreement on. You can't have everything your way and vice versa. You have to give a little and take a little. Then you both will be happy!
2006-07-17 12:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by slugworm88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well keep on trying then.If you think there's a small chance of your marrige surviving and you still see hope,then you try whatever you can to make it succeed.Don't nag about sex though for now since your marrige is on the rocks,its not the best way to go right now.Talk to her,be open,dont lose your cool.Take her out,be polite,nice,treat her good....
2006-07-17 12:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Pammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you with that. You have to make that decision all on your own. Sorry... but if you need to bounce it off someone, talk to a therapist... the opinions of friends and family, and people on Yahoo will only confuse you further.
2006-07-17 12:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be more receptive if you found out why she seems mad.
2006-07-17 14:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well divorce for any reason other than adultery and/or abandonment is unbiblical. Try and work it out, its not good having it on your conscience.
2006-07-17 12:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by DesignR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋