what can i do to make my self look uglier
2006-07-17 04:57:09 · 33 answers · asked by daydreamer_qt 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I am truly sorry that you had to go through something like this however you don't need to change the way you look to make sure that it doesn't happen again. The fact is, getting raped is not about appearances - but it is most definitely about power and control. Basically, to avoid this from ever happening again, you need to learn to be safe. Always seriously consider the people and the environment of each circumstance you decide to step into - go through all the possibilities in your mind before you agree to go somewhere alone or with people that you aren't sure about. Always make sure that you have a way out or that others are within hearing range. If you ever find yourself in a vulnerable situation again and the guy won't get off of you don't be afraid to defend yourself. For example: the inside of the ear is veeery sensitive - if you jab a fingernail in there, I promise you, he'll move off you in a snap, giving you enough time to get away.
Take care of yourself and never stop being beautiful!
Love Skye
2006-07-17 05:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe rape is solely about control. I have been raped as well. There are aspects of control involved but I don't think it is the sole reason they chose a target to rape.
There was this man that had a very large male part. He hunted for women that just had a baby, believing all women have a baby naturely not by c-section therefore a woman with a baby would have been stretched large enough to fit him. What he did wasn't about control, nor was it because I was a hot moma, it was because I had a baby and he didn't care how he was able to relieve his manly urges or what he had to do to relieve himself.
Women are a focus for men in a sexual way, No matter what you look like, or how old you are, there is a man that wants to take something from you for what ever reason. As others have stated you have to be careful.
It is also getting to a point where males also have to be careful. Because it can be solely for control that rape is done, and controlling other malescan be just as important as controlling a female.
2006-07-17 05:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't understand what rape is. You shouldn't joke about anything like that. Being raped has nothing to do with you looking good. Do you think when 70 year old women get raped its by a sane guy and he finds her attractive. Rapists are sick people who do bad things and get locked up for it.
2006-07-17 10:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you got raped doesn't mean your hot. It means you are vulnerable and an easy target. It's not a good thing to get raped, don't act like you're hot because of it.
2006-07-17 05:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to report these people so no1 else gets raped and i think u wanted to get raped cause this is a serious issue and someone who has gotten raped wouldnt brag. I have a friend who did and now shes not the same. So............yeah
2006-07-17 05:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by hayhay_hannula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have got raped 2 times then you would not be bragging about it and defiantly it don't mean you were hot.
2006-07-17 05:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to make yourself uglier. You need to check yourself in a mental institution. The 'doctors' there might be able to help you.
2006-07-17 05:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by chilimuncher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm this is a dumb way 2want to say u think u are hot....
like the girl said getting rape doesn't mean you are hot it just means you are an easy target....
U need to check the situations you're putting urself in and invest in some pepper spray
2006-07-17 05:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is not about attraction or sex. It is about the rapist's need for control over their victim. If you had really been raped twice you would know that. May I suggest not putting yourself in such dangerous situations, if you aren't kidding.
2006-07-17 05:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED COUNSELING. WHERE DID YOU GET I'M SO HOT FROM? YOU SOUND LIKE YOUR PROUD OF BEING RAPED. YOU REALLY NEED SERIOUS COUNSELING. I AGREE WITH THE OTHERS I BET YOU DID NOT REPORT IT. AND YOU KNOW WHO DID IT TO YOU. IT WAS PROBABLY THE SAME PERSON THAT DID IT THE FIRST TIME. YOU DID NOT REPORT THAT TO THE POLICE, STATING THAT YOUR SO HOT.
2006-07-17 10:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋