What happened to the good times we use to have ?Why do we fuss,cuss and fight ?

Answer 1

you have forgotten how to communicate with each other. you need to learn how to talk again and to work together. set some rules for talking.
1. if either of us starts to get upset we tell the other and the conversation medially stops, we will continue when you cool off and can control yourself.
2. you both vow to listen to each other and your concerns.
3. never go to bed mad at each other
i recommend getting your favorite drink, a bottle of wine, or what ever, a couple of glasses, a hot bath, both you get in the tub and continue your conversation its amazing how hard it is to get mad at each other under those circumstances

Answer 2

Well, at least I know now I am not the only one going through this. The least little remark can start a war at my house. We have changed, he's not the man I married any longer, and I am not the woman he married either. Unfortunately, he doesn't like the new me, and I don't like him either. I have became serious, and he wants to go through a second childhood and be a party animal. Has things or have either of you changed? If you are having financial problems that can damage a marriage. If you want the peace and the good times back-sit down with your wife and tell her. It is going to take both of you to make this work, and that means talking to one another with the yelling and cussing. Tell her you miss her, and I pray that she misses you. You may have to have some outside help, and if so, there's nothing wrong in seeking help. You have made the first step by asking for advice, now ask her how can you help. She needs to be willing to work with you, set some ground rules about yelling and cussing, and stick to them. Or you won't ever work things out. It is easier to fight and scream then to face some of life's major issues. Kind of a taking the coward's way out. I wish you well, and pray that the good times are just around the corner for you. God bless...

Answer 3

Day to day stresses of life cause the fussing, cussing, and fighting. Try just enjoying each others company again.

Answer 4

I dont know bout you but I have good times when i fuss, cuss and fight.

Answer 5

It is simply a sign of the times. We have almost forgotten how to resolve issues by talking to one another because todays world teaches young america that the only punches that count are the ones delivered by a fist or a gun.

Answer 6

You probably grew up. Were busy working, paying bills, cleaning the house,etc. Talk instead of fighting. People rarely fight about what is wrong, they just pick on each other about other things. Think about what you're really fighting about so that you can fix it.

Answer 7

Hey now.. speak for yourself.. I don't cuss n fuss with anyone. but ya step in my face i will fight ya if i have to...

Answer 8

People are greedy and lazy and fussing is a way to get free money. That is to say being offended is equal to dollars or being offended can be your job.

Answer 9

Because life got in the way. Everything is fun in the beginning, everyone puts their best face forward. But when real life jumps up and smacks you in the face (i.e.-bills, household problems, family, friends.......) we tend to forget the good times and only focus on the bad.

Answer 10

have you ever thaught that there is alot more at stake now and you both are more up tite now, things are always easier at the beginnin you dont have as much to lose things are new like a toy , then the life (real) comes in to slap ya, its hard but try to take time out with eachother and take a breathe like at the beginin it mite help,