My boyfriend & I broke up about a month ago. We have been back together for a bout 2 weeks now. He was having sex with another girl while we where broke up and he is still talking to her now. I say something to him and he told me today that i am pushing him away. I don't want to push the man i am in love with out of my life again. What should i do to not lose him again.SHould i just leave it alone with this other girl.
2006-07-17 04:28:46 · 9 answers · asked by mariesgizmo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We where together for 4 1/2 yrs. we had problems and broke up. he went found a 20 yr old hore. she sleeps with every guys she ever dated. I have two kids that he has been helping me raise for all these years. I love and care more than anything in the world. Just want to know what else i could do not to push him to her and keep him with me.
2006-07-17 04:40:12 · update #1
maybe you ARE pushing him away on a sub-conscious level after all he's been with someone else and he could also be using the term "pushing him away" as an excuse for getting out of the relationship after all he is STILL talking to her. whats up with that. sounds like too much drama. he doesn't know what he wants.
2006-07-17 04:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi ????,
this is husnain from pakistan Your situation is very typical because you are in love and u just want that guy at any cost i think because u said that you are in love but i m gonna say that just leave him and try to forget things i know that this is really difficult for anyone who loves somebody but it will be good for you to forget him because if u will recal your moments then you will love him more than before so just try to forget its difficult but not impossible.
The guy is actualy not sincere with you what i have got it from your question that he just need a girl to pass his time. he doesnt care that what others think so who doesn't care about these very sensitive things so why u care about those people and i m really surprising that u have been spending your time and even you know that he has a girl and doing something with her and still you are in love dear leave him this is the answer.
i know its really difficult but dont think about him. and try to be normal try to keep busy ur self in a fort night or a month you will feel relax really try this tip.
bye
Husnain
2006-07-17 11:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by syed z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pushing him away because maybe things are not the same since you broke up and he was with another girl that he still talks to.and you probly don't trust him anymore if you want to be with him u have to learn to trust him again and be willing to put the other girl behind u and look to the future
2006-07-17 11:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
You have ugly, fat, dumb syndrome.
Something about your self esteem is lacking if you would put up with this behavior.
If you want him back, just say "you're crazy if you think I would have you after sleeping with another girl, and still talking to her..."
He'll totally want you back...
Even then, he's not ready to love you again. Waiting on him and letting him walk all over you would just delay the inevitable.
2006-07-17 11:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for you to either get fed up and leave or accept his relationship with another woman.
Push away.
2006-07-17 11:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't. Girl you need to get him alone and give him one good night that he would never forget. Do something he likes and have a night of sweet love making.
2006-07-17 11:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him he tells you that so that you accept him and this girl seeing and having sex with each other and you ain't do anything about it sometimes when you really love someone is better to let them go especially when there hurting you more then helping you
2006-07-17 11:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really all that you can do.Either you trust him or you don't.If it bothers you that he is still close to this girl tell him.If he cares about you he will stop if he doesn't then ask yourself does he really love you if not walk.
2006-07-17 11:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by STACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. neither of you are ready for a committed relationship with each other.
Find another man who can treat you right, and not blame YOU when he is seeing other women. relationships shouldn't be this dramatic.
2006-07-17 11:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋