yes am so ugly,everyone hates me even my ******* father...
am so shy because of this i even keep my head down when am walking i have no self confidence
but i really want to have a happy life,yeah am smart and
i want to be a doctor
but can somebody help me to deal with my uglyness
why i am so loneley
2006-07-17 04:26:00 · 13 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Please read the book Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch. It will help to change your perspective on life in general as well as your attitude toward yourself.
Sending love, light and blessing to you....
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2006-07-17 04:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fixed on your looks that's what everyone else will be too. There are a lot of famous people who are very ugly--look at Carrot Top and Marty Feldman--and they overcome it or work with it. If your father doesn't like you then don't go to him for approval. Self-love comes from within. It is true that if you hate yourself no one will love you. You can also make lots of friends online who won't know or care what you look like. It's great for you to have a goal of being a doctor but you need to look at patients and have them look back. You have to deal with shyness and low self esteem problems or you'll have no patients.
2006-07-17 04:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Gevera Bert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't accept yourself, no one else will either. You need some professional help dealing with depression and self esteem issues.
There are many people with various disabilities and other medical problems that lead normal vital lives. Sympathy will get you no where in life. You want to be a medical doctor, well before you can help and treat other people, you need to help yourself first.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 04:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by mama_wizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well i just wanna tell u that no one can be freakin ugly trust me and maybe people don't talk to u coz they think u are not them well actually go out and show people who u r ur personality don't be afraid they might be people who criticise u but y do u care get some friends they are the best in times of need i mean sometimes better than family members and kinda trust me on this coz i no barbie and i kinda felt the same thing.and the reason that ur lonely is only bcoz u are not tryin to change that fact and hey bein a doc will be awesome fun jus trust urself and be u not some wanna be coz anyone will suck tryin to be wat they are not
2006-07-17 04:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by misha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all no person is ugly!and using bad words is not really a wise thing to do especially for your elders.Belive in yourself every person in the world is said to beutiful not only the exterior beauty but the inner beauty!And i really dont knw whom i am answering to but honestly i would love to belive that i am answering to a person wid a very beutiful heart!So dont be dishearted work towards your goal and you will achieve one someday!
2006-07-17 04:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
countless issues are evoked: you're on the verge of beginning a clean life, do no longer take the detest with you, want your loved ones the final and pass on. in case you like counseling to try this, then safeguard your self and do it. Secondly, i've got seen people who're depressing and human beings who're happy. The happier ones do no longer inevitably have an enhanced life, they greater often than not opt to be happy and whilst they are down help somebody much less fortunate. you're able to sense such as you are the backside individual interior the international precise now, yet there are people who're even decrease. I as quickly as hated my Dad for how he taken care of me, yet in the previous he kicked the bucket I observed he replaced into in basic terms a guy with faults, only as his father replaced into in the previous him and only as i'm, a individual with faults. in spite of his motives, and you're able to by no skill be conscious of what they are, there are motives for each individual, your Dad is what he's. Now as a grown guy with a clean condominium and a gamble at college, you have a great commencing factor to maintain on in a great way. you notice the form you have been taken care of, and perhaps it made you an enhanced individual, a greater being concerned individual, and sometime you will deal along with your baby with the honour you needed and be an enhanced father for it. the alternative is yours proceed with the detest or get help, enable bypass and pass on. P.S. maximum females human beings could extremely have a alluring soul in a guy than a alluring face, even in spite of the indisputable fact that it takes a on a similar time as for a number of them to determine that out, they do come around! additionally, if some thing approximately your visual charm rather bothers YOU (no longer your dad) perhaps slightly self esteem boosting could help with a clean haircut or new healthful once you get to college. could God bless you greater often than not with wellness, peace and plenty excitement!
2016-12-10 08:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by bienvenu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not ugly, it is your feelings about yourself that makes you feel ugly...And for your father, he needs a kick in the butt, here is my advice..when i was younger I felt the same way, i went to acounselor and we sorted out what was making me feel ugly...Apparently, along the way you were not fed positive input. Everybody has something nice about them....
It really can be worked out...and no one is ugly
2006-07-17 04:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by Oceanbreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, it is impossible to have a happy life unless you move to a less superficial society. And it will only get worse over time, unfortunately.
2006-07-17 04:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by gone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you can see about getting some plastic surgery if it would help you. are you a nice person,do you have a good personality ??? you may be surprised to know alot of really pretty girls love ulgy men i think there is always somthing special about them inside that shallow people cant see look you will be saving lives that is wonderful and your money and smarts will attract woman.dont sell your self short you have alot going for you as for you dad let it go in one ear and out the other.ps keep your head up love nicole...................................................................................
2006-07-17 04:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to beleive in yourself, and yes at first this can be hard, but i was the same as well, till i said to myself that i will put my head up and laugh and joke and love this will help you,
2006-07-17 04:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋