my ex tells me his strue feelins for me since we have broke up and i have move on with somebody else.he always talk about my boyfriend every time we get on the phone.do u think he is forceing me to break up with my boyfriend so he can have me back are do he really care about me and he just wanna do whats best.
2006-07-17 04:25:55 · 24 answers · asked by T.T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why are you still talking to him? Guess you don't much respect the new guy.
2006-07-17 04:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more things change, the more they stay the same. Do you really think that the two of you have changed so much that you could make a go of it now? Isn't it always more appealing to try to get back something that you have lost? He is just jealous. Don't be manipulated. Move on with your life. My ex-husband was fabulous to me as soon as he found out that I was dating someone else. My ex-fiance begged for me back as soon as he found out I was dating. (He had dumped me.) Some men just feel they are irresistible and you should never be able to get over them. Don't fall for it.
2006-07-17 11:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by 2bizy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be honest here...I know you've heard you don't know what you've lost until it's gone. Perhaps that's the case. Jealousy might be a small part but he is trying hard to win you back.
If you've moved on perhaps that was the right thing to do. If you've moved on and thinking about getting back with him only you know what to do and whether he's believable. Rebound relationships are tough on everyone.
If he says "he just wanna do whats best", he really should have just said his peace and get to steppin'. At this point, you decide what's really best for you.
2006-07-17 11:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be both ways but, then again whats the deal with the true feelings thing why not do it when yall were going out you know. I wouldn't jump to conclusions just dont take everything he says as real. Also if your new bf is treating you bad maybe your ex has the right to care
2006-07-17 11:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even want this person back? What he tells you on the phone about his true feelings and what he actually feels may be two different things.
Sounds like this character has some real issues...jealousy and control being only the start of it.
You deserve better than to even TALK to this loser.
Take Care-
Cat
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2006-07-17 11:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take into consideration what he thinks and what he wants.
It's your life, your relationships. You do what you feel is right. If you are happy with your new boyfriend, remain with him and tell your ex that the relationship is over and he needs to deal with it. If you aren't happy with your boyfriend and want to get back with your ex, then break it off and give the ex another chance....
Just do what feels best.
2006-07-17 11:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like hes obsessed with you and he just wants you back because your already with someone else. You know, a lot of people go back to their relationships with their ex's because they know what it is like. They feel more comfortable and secure in a relationship they have already been in. A lot of men say things so sweet to you and act so nice to you when your both broken up. But when you get back together, they become more and more relaxed and comfortable with the relationship. This means everything's back to normal.
2006-07-17 11:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by mom of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question should be why do you care?He is your ex for what ever reason.That should say it all.Men tend to be territorial about the women they have considered to be theirs.It's not so much that he wants you back as much as he doesn't want anyone else to have you.
2006-07-17 11:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by STACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep remembering why you broke up to start with and also the fact that you have moved on...let me tell you from experience a leopard rarely changes its spots...get it. why are you guys still talkin maybe its not really over or maybe you are just having trouble really letting each other go
2006-07-17 12:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex for a reason so move on and let him deal with his new found feelings.
2006-07-17 11:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say that he just has a jealousy problem, but on the other hand sometimes people dont know what they have until its gone....maybe thats what it took for him to realize....
2006-07-17 11:31:20 · answer #11 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋