having sex with his ex gf? WTF is that about? i seriously want to beat the crap out of him.
2006-07-17 04:23:23 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I am a guy and I wanna beat the crap outta my wife when she talks about something like that.....:)
2006-07-17 04:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being very disrespectful. Some guys are truely dumb (most are) and he may not even know it bothers you. Tell him that is not something he should be mentioning in your presence or while he is dating you. And chances are he probably does know it bothers you and like an as shole is doing it anyways. Now don't get me wrong I do not promote or support domestic violence but a little slap to the back of the head shouldn't hurt. Just a little love tap to remind his stupid as s to stop bringing up the past or else thats where he's gonna end up.
2006-07-17 11:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by PHD-NDN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from a guy - you need to reverse it. He is probably doing it to get a rise out of you (jealousy, etc), because he is insecure, so by getting jealous, it helps reassure him that you "want" him.
So I'd suggest the following:
When he starts talking about sex with an ex-gf, just throw out a casual "wow...that reminds me of the time my old boyfriend would" ...........fill in the details as you see fit.
I'm sure that his behavior will change once he hears of your escapades (whether they are true or not).
2006-07-17 11:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an idiot don't beat the crap out of him. Get out of his life so he can have sex with his ex-gf. You don't need the aggravation. Unless you talk about having sex with your ex-bf you don't deserve that.
He's hooked. Did he get rejected by her? Prolly from talking to her about having sex with his ex-gf. :o)
2006-07-17 11:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out that it bothers you. If he's doing it to get a reaction...give him one!!!
If he's doing it because he is a self-absorbed, disrespectful jerk, then maybe you need to move on to someone who's going to be a little more respectful to you in the future. You don't need that kind of grief!
2006-07-17 11:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANGER MANAGEMENT... seriously
Ok. WHO CARES ABOUT THE EX's he is with you. If he does it one time tell him you dont care if he talks about it when it is not in front of you. Let him know you are fine with him conversating about his past but not to hurt your feelings or embarrass you with that in front of others. TALK TO HIM>
NO HITTING..
2006-07-17 11:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Wildfirentampa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i am the ex-girlfriend lol just kidding...heres what you do start giving him the most incredible sex he ever had and then dump him and he will be talking about it with the next woman...or maybe thats his plan...wink wink
2006-07-17 12:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't help you there. My fiance only had one sexual encounter before me, and the only time he mentions it, he says he regrets it, and that's all there is to it.
Tell your boyfriend that you find it disrespectful for him to re-live his past sexual encounters, when he should be focusing on the relationship he's in now.
2006-07-17 11:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
He's testing you, and pushing your buttons (which is VERY disrespectful and manipulative).
You could go along with it, and say "yah...I LOVE that position...or how about this one?
2006-07-17 11:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell him i don't want to hear that sh*t and if you keep talking about it it must mean u want to do it with her and if you do get the fu*k on about your bussiness.Because he is not respecting your feelings at all
2006-07-17 11:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋