Ok I been with my fiance for 4 years and he is begging me to get these videos for him.... I dont understand why he want to see a bunch of young girls degrade themselves, It makes me think hes not attracted to me anymore I think I look good (thats what people tell me) I also have a big top and Im more then willing to flash it for him whenever he wants...So whats the big deal about these movies.
2006-07-17 04:02:42 · 15 answers · asked by fred g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't get mad he just wants to see if any of his ex-girls are on the video.
Found two of mine, one in where snoop dog comes out and the other in party girls. dam whores
2006-07-17 04:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by ICE_ICE_Baby? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I bought some for myself. But if you are not comfortable doing it yourself, don't. All men look. Some men want to stretch the fantasy into their relationships. Tell him no and don't ask again. If he does not respect that, you need another boyfriend.
Once you bring another person (even a video) into your relationship, there is always jealousy and hurt feelings from one party. In a way it feels like cheating. This is where a lot of good couples go wrong. Only bring something like this into your relationship if "both" parties are willing, not just talked into it.
Also, if you have been together for 4 years, he might be feeling an itch. This is normal. It usually starts in year 3. (It is not the 7 year itch like "they" say) This is a true test of your fiance's committment to you. Let's see how well you are respected.
Don't be too upset that he asked. Be upset if he just showed up with the videos and said, "Hey Baby, lets go."
2006-07-17 11:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your problem may be something other than your fiance wanting to watch these videos. If he really just wanted to see them, why wouldn't he buy them for himself? If he's asking you to get them, I would guess that he is doing so for another purpose. For example, he may be trying to hint at some emotional need he has that is not being fulfilled (or that he feels guilty for having -- such as lustful feelings toward other women). It is also possible that he "gets off" on your reaction to his asking for these videos. If he loves you, he shouldn't be asking you to do something that would bother you, and I doubt that he doesn't think you are bothered by him asking.
I think that you and he need to have a serious discussion about this. Some couples enjoy watching this kind of thing together. Some don't. But in any case, you shouldn't take any of this personally. It's not about you being inadequate.
2006-07-17 11:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by DAC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey silly, it's not about you, ok. It's about watching girls having fun and you should watch them with him, stop being prudish and become more open with him.
You sound like you have lived a sheltered life and he has not. If you don't start talking and communicating with him, a relationship of any kind will never work for you.
All most all men like to watch some kind of nakedness on TV or a PC. So do some women.
Get with the times.
2006-07-20 09:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your man is very stupid, sorry to say. If you have a big chest whats he going after on girls gone wild? Men are unpredictable the girls their haven't even finish college yet and their ******* older men and flashing the camera. Is your sex life in trouble or something because that could be it. Also maybe he's getting it for a friend but what i don't understand is why he's asking you unless they don't want him to call. I would start investigating
2006-07-17 11:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do you women always read more into men than is really there.
WE LIKE TO LOOK AT NAKED WOMEN.
It really is that simple. It has nothing to do with you, or how we feel about you, or the status of our relationship, it is male nature. We are hunters, millions of years of instinct. Give the guy a break, and tell him to grow up and buy his own videos.
2006-07-17 11:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't mind watching those kinds of movies with my hubby but I would be pissed as hell if he begged me to buy them for him! I don't think it's because he finds you unattractive....I think he's just being a nasty, perverted, immature boy. But.....if you do get them make sure to start with the one with Snoopdog.....the one girl on there who pulls her panties down to show her ***...hahahahaha! Well she thinks she is soooo hot and all that but right there....for the whole world to see....is a brown skid mark on her white panties! Take care and I hope you have an amazing day!
2006-07-17 11:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by silent.peace 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a guy thing just be under standing and is really that big of a deal to watch a girls gone wild movie you should watch it with me
2006-07-17 11:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just see it with him also if u dont like that then just let him watch it because its harmless, not lieing i was just looking through magizens and i saw that watching adault pornagraphy with your spouse can make your sex more experianced becasue you are watching some one before but it kinda dos'nt apply to girls gone wild but if i wanted those movies i would;nt do anything but thats just me.
2006-07-17 11:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Robby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may try watching with him and then you may find that you get turned on by them .I know I do I was the same way as you the 1st time I watch them but now I go buy the to watch by myself .
2006-07-17 11:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by beerfootballgrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋