2006-07-17 04:02:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go for a run or head to the gym or swimming pool, just stay busy!
2006-07-17 04:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its my daily struggle since I recently broke up with the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Its hard to focus on today because today was supposed to include him and its hard to think about tomorrow because I have to now make all the future plans by myself. At first I just wallowed in it and cried. I think you need time to do that. At some point you get sick of wallowing and start getting focused. The only thing that seems to help is time.
2006-07-17 04:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a question I ask myself most days....just know the past is in the past and you can not change that but you can change the future and it starts by focusing on today...Today is an opportunity that tomorrow can bring happier heart felt memories...
2006-07-17 04:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make your way and don't let the past ruin the present. I have the same situation right now but I'm living the present to more than the past and it really is working.
2006-07-17 04:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you sit back and think of the past is it good memories or bad? If they are good memories hold on to them, because you may not get those back, however if they are bad just let it go. Keep yourself occupied and try to think of other good memories. The past is what makes you who you are.
2006-07-17 04:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been in your shoes before and what helps me is to stay busy and be with people who bring out the best in you!!!!!!!
2006-07-17 04:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by missy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one. just remember that you cant have a bright future if you keep focusing on the darkness of your past
2006-07-17 04:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep Really Busy, As time goes it will be easier to go on.
2006-07-17 04:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by one_and_only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋