2006-07-17 04:00:08 · 31 answers · asked by james m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she dosent drink or sware lol
2006-07-17 04:02:52 · update #1
get her drunk. then bring the girl over.
2006-07-17 04:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by piopo 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
How does she respond when you tell her it is a fantasy of yours? Are you willing to have sex with her with another man? Hard questions, I know. Boils down to if she is open to it. My suggestions are NOT for "conning" her into it, but if she agrees. Set down rules before hand such as kissing on the lips, or vaginal intercourse, etc. Before you all start your orgie, lay down some rules that EVERYONE is comfortable with, including a STOP word. Yeah, a word that anyone can say at anytime that means stop, RIGHT NOW. A safe word, if you will. Be sure to pay attention to her more than the other woman. Make sure you tell her how much you love her and how hot she looks...DON'T FORGET! She may become insanely jealous if she thinks you like or are attracted more to the other woman than her...big mistake! Do this because you want to be with HER and open up to new experiences and suppress inhibitions or because it is a legit fantasy that you want HER to be a large part of, not because you just want to bang some other chick. If that's all...just tell your wife that and settle it in divorce court, if necessary. Don't cheat on her, she doesn't deserve that.
2006-07-17 04:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't talk her into it, that is a recipe for failure, it has to be her idea. The girls control this not you. You are at her mercy. Does she show any interest at all in girls? I mean, suppose she is out dancing with friends, will she get a little nasty on the dance floor? If so, then mention briefly how hot she was dancing with another woman. See if she takes that little bit of knowledge and runs with it, teasing you even more next time, or she is grossed out by your perverted attitude. Encourage her dancing with the girls. Bi-girls have bidar, they can sense other bi girls and will take advantage of it. If you can watch some porn and tell her how how the girl-girl scenes are. If you are really adventurous, take her to either Hedonism in Jamaica or a local swingers club, always girl-girl action at those places. Or if you are really comfortable with your relationship, just plain ask her.
2006-07-17 04:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She don't drink and she don't swear. In a short time you can add she is not married either. Take some good advice, forget it and be happy with what you have or give it up and find two who love that sort of thing. Sounds to me you have a good wife.
2006-07-17 13:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek marriage counselling if you can come on to a website and ask a question like that yet not feel comfortable enough to sit and rationally discuss your sex life with your wife.
2006-07-17 04:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by PlainLana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you have sex with another man for your wife? Having a D*** in your butt probably doesn't sound any more appealing to you than having a cooch in her mouth sounds to your wife. Stop looking at so much porn, and appreciate a wife who loves you and shares her body with you. You shouldn't need any more than that.
2006-07-17 04:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on to a threesome chat room or join an on-line group together, that should get the topic out in the air and maybe she will consider it then.
(If she don't want to, then let it go cause you wouldn't sleep with a man... "at least I hope you wouldn't")
You gotta respect her. It also helps if she is bi-curious already.
2006-07-17 04:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife has not already displayed any signs of wanting to have sex with a woman....you are the one with the problem.......and if you have those type of fantasys you most likiely are not satisfying her anyway......you may run the risk of losing her to a better lover!!!!!!!!!! Lose your wife , or lose you perversion....life is not all about your wants....grow up
2006-07-17 04:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a hint:
Keep it as a dream, and don't try to make it reality. It will most likely offend your wife. Even if it's another woman, it's still cheating.
2006-07-17 04:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU have issues, tell your wife you lied when you made your wedding vows and you are still interested in other women. You can't have your cake and eat it too.,either seek marriage counseling or leave. Unless you're watching porno all the time , you should not act on these fantasies, if you're not you're still an as____e.
2006-07-17 04:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, get divorced first, then try to find yourself a bisexual couple willing to let you in.
Unless you know for certain your wife is "into" women, then you are giong to offend her, and hurt her with a question like that.
2006-07-17 04:02:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋