2006-07-17 03:50:42 · 32 answers · asked by teh_sexi_hotttie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't think about mariage ending in divorce. Thinking so negatively will lead you to sign those divorce papers faster. Marriage should be a positive part of anyone's life. Not everybody gets divorced. Many people have long lasting and meaningful relationships. If you think that there is no point in getting married because you will end up in divorce, maybe marriage is not for you yet. Perhaps you need to take time to meet and talk to individuals who have been married for a long time. See how their relationship is and realize that there are lots of solid relationships out there. Nobody said that you HAVE to wait until you get married. If you feel comfortable with that person and want to share that experience, go ahead. I think there is nothing wrong with that.
2006-07-17 05:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by bonjovifan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no point. Unless your a religious person who believes in that.
I don't believe in waiting to get married to loose your virginity. Maybe just wait for a person who you have very strong feelings for.
You should always test drive before you buy the package. You wouldn't buy a car without driving it first. So why would you marry a person you haven't slept with first?
Besides, you have a 50% rate of divorcing anyways, so you'll more then likely end up with multiple partners anyways.
2006-07-21 07:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jupiter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of staying a virgin had to do with property in the ancient world. A woman was always someone's property. She was her father's property until she got married, and then her husband's property. Not property to be sold, but included in his assets. And if a man had sex with a woman before she was married and then didn't marry her, he had hurt the other man's property. Also, in the ancient world, to have sex signified that you were married, it was what binded the marriage, so basically if you had sex, it was getting married. Don't forget though, a man could have as many wives as he wanted--Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines.
2006-07-19 03:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by brownbagpartygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you shouldn't go into marriage thinking of Divorce. I have been married for 22 years. Yes some end in divorce but you shouldn't get married if you feel you would end up getting divorced. Some divorces are are inevitable but if you are unsure don't get married til you are sure.
2006-07-17 03:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone gets divorced so easily. I would definitely suggest pre-marital marriage counseling. They can help to make sure you are both 'on the same page' and don't have wacky expectations.
I think it is awesome for people to stay virgins until they are married. I honestly wish I had!
2006-07-17 04:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well staying a virgin will save you from having thoughts and feelings for your previous sex partners when you get married to your wife...
staying a virgin will keep your head clear when making a decision on whom to marry...you will be able to make a decision based on her character and personality and attitude vs marrying her based on emotions or feelings of love that develop once you have sex..sex should be your reward/bonus once you have found that person you have decided to spend the rest of your life with...
staying a virgin will keep you from possible disappointment. when you are a virgin you wont have anyone to compare your wife to (sexually). when you have sex with several women you have gotten to see and do all sorts of things. when you find your wife, if she is not as sexually experienced as some of the past women you been with you will find yourself disappointed and frustrated because you have expectations of her to perform that she is unaware of because of your past women.
these are just a few reasons why staying a virgin is important..i believe if most people were virgins when they got married we would not have a high divorce rate.
2006-07-17 04:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is the right thing to do. If you have trust and love in your marriage, then there will be no room for divorce. My parents have been married for over 30 years and they still have the same fire that they had when they first met each other.
2006-07-17 03:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting divorced has nothing to do with the real reason one would choose to remain a virgin.
No one knows what the future brings -Whats the point of living if you will die someday.
You choose to remain a virgin because of personal convictions,full stop.
2006-07-17 03:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point is to get to know your future not only during the good times but bad as well so that you do not get divorced
2006-07-18 11:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by MICHAEL S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is about Intergerity and your character.!Being a virgin mattered to me because our bodies are sacred.Marriage to one man the rest of your life to grow together.Being his only lover meant a lot to me.One man's rib made one woman for that man to be beside him.That is our creation.It takes two to make God's ONENESS and UNITY in marriage.it is an everlasting process.I am very proud to say I was a virgin before I got married.The Wedding then the happily ever~after!~!
2006-07-17 04:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by david w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋