he got married first to a girl after 6months of relationship which broke my heart into small pieces. by God's grace, i have moved on already and am also happily married now to a guy who loves me so much. after 6 years in silence, he sent mails lately and asked forgiveness for hurting me. and now he is coming to town next week and he wants to see me. y is he doing this? what's the best thing to do? please help... thank u.
2006-07-17 03:48:07 · 7 answers · asked by brix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All the friends here are telling you not to see him and I agree; the problem is that you want to see him since you have asked the question.You have to convince yourself not to see him because it will bring you just troubles otherwise all the advices are worthless.Solve the dilemma inside you before trying to do anything
2006-07-17 04:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by chinwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest mistake that some people do is when they take things and people around them for granted, and they stop paying enough attention for what they have.
If u already asked this question, probably u need someone to encourage u to see him, WELL, NO, don't meet him....pls don't meet him, keep him as a memory, and appreciate what you have.
2006-07-17 10:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by lotsofadventures04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend is not happy with his family and he didn't remember you in his good days and he remember you after long 6 years back. so his intense is not good for you. and you are happy with your family, so i think you don't meet your friend, maybe he will keep you in emotional condition and it will spoil your family's relation. i think it will fire for your happily marriage life. so don't meet your old friend and give him advice to forget you.
2006-07-17 11:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by loveablexxxman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you go and see him soo you won't break his heart he only wants to see you because you two were best friends. go ahead and just talk to him again.
2006-07-17 10:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find closure on this part of your life i hope your husband is aware of this and if not tell him soon
2006-07-17 10:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont meet and completely ignore him.
2006-07-17 10:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by SUNIL Raj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and keep your love beside you.
2006-07-17 10:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋