I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type.She danced with EVERYBODY. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a young handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. She admitted that her naughty "adventure" turned her on like crazy. Should I be mad at her for not just walking away from the horny guy? She tells me it was just a big tease and I should not be upset about a little "cheap thrill". What do you think?
2006-07-17 03:44:36 · 9 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
although i would probably find it a bit disturbing myself. I would look at it as if the same were true if i was turned on by another woman and went had great sex with my wife. The fact is its you she had sex with. she was honest with you. show me someone who hasn't fantasized about another while have having sex with their mate. fantasy's are normal.
i hope you have a strong relationship and can look at this in a positive way. whatever turns my wife on and and we have great sex because of it, I'm all for it. outside of sleeping with others and being unfaithful.
your relationship has to be strong and you have to have a lot of trust.
2006-07-17 04:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, she told you about it. What's the difference between her getting wet over the thought of a guy heating up over her and you getting a little hard when a woman comes on to you? If you don't take it any farther, that's just nature. Quit worrying and enjoy the loving and hot sex she gives when it happens to her. NO one will ever know what fantasies are going through their sex partners mind during sex. JUST ENJOY.
2006-07-17 03:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was honest about her emotions....these are very natural feelings and for her to hide them from herself as well as you would be deceiving and probably only make her more interested in finding out were they may lead...and if she could not share this curiosity with you...is how others less honest find someone else to get a "cheap thrill" out of such an occasion...be thankful your wife truly loves and respect you.
2006-07-17 03:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just summarize the whole episode by considering if you've never been told. You have nothing to be upset about, you said your wife is faithful in the first line of your question.
2006-07-17 03:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't cheat on you, and was honest and up front about it, so I'd say there's no reason to get hugely upset. However, that said, emotions really are not something you can control. If you didn't like that she had that reaction to another person, then you should be equally up front and honest about it.
2006-07-17 03:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she did good for telling you. And she was just helping the guy out.
2006-07-17 03:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude - you are a lucky man
2006-07-17 05:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she should have walked away from him, she is a married woman and should have more respest for you
2006-07-17 03:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by kumquat.2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been pissed......there wouldnt have been any sex with her that night.
2006-07-17 04:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋