I just found out my husband has been visiting a site called 89.com, I have not yet confronted him about this. If he is looking at porn then are chances even better that he will cheat with someone online etc?????????
2006-07-17 03:32:42 · 19 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that stuff is appaling, I don't want to watch it...
2006-07-17 03:38:28 · update #1
Don't freak out...maybe he just likes to watch. When you do approach him, ask him why he likes it...try to understand what is going on in his MALE brain. Now, if he starts paying for the porn or live chatting...that is going too far.
2006-07-17 03:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some guys simply enjoy watching porn. Chances of cheating are 1/1000.
2006-07-17 10:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by exoticncurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Don't worry, If he wanted to cheat on you, he doesn't need Porn to do that... I can't defend it, but i guess some guy out there just watch porn for the sake of it. People who watch porn, watch them since they were a kid....
Peace
2006-07-17 10:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Arun M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. It depends, though, on if this 89.com includes chat. If it is "just" porn, I don't think that tells you anything about whether your husband will cheat. As far as I know, it is extremely common for men to enjoy porn, no matter how satisfied they are in their relationship. I know it doesn't make us feel great to know our men enjoy this--believe me, I know.
2006-07-17 10:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is lookin at porn it means one of 2 things
1. he feels like hes not gettin something from u that he thinks he should or
2. its just something that he likes
just because he is lookin at porn doesn't mean he will cheat unless first answer hes not gettin what he wants. in any case u should ask him if there's something your not giving him before u tell him u know hes lookin at porn if he ask y u ask then tell him what u know cheating is part of someones personality and character has nothing to do with them watching porn
2006-07-17 10:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Docx530 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, don't panic...Just about every man out there likes porn of one kind or another. It dosen't mean he wants to cheat or even that he doesn't love you, its just a visual thing with us. We like to look at it. Perhaps you should find some you can look at together.
2006-07-17 10:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by RenagadePriest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-07-17 10:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn can become and addiction, then the relationship will just become a place for him to test out the things he sees, talk to him about it and see how he feels, if he feels trapped by it and wants to get out, help him, if he wants to try new things with you, go ahead. support him either way. but dont let sex take over the relationship.
2006-07-17 10:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of men look at porn but do not cheat or want to cheat
2006-07-17 11:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is looking at porn doesn't mean he will cheat. All men look at ponr. It is jsut a guy thing.
2006-07-17 10:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋