See, we've been friends for 3 years now, and i've seen her have 3 bfs in that time, and I didnt care cause a few of them were my friends and lately we've spent time together(a few friends) because shes leaving for college next month. I never let myself say that I feel more than what I do, but I don't know what I'm feeling, cause she spends seperate time with her bf, and he wasn't with us when we hung out. She makes me want to smile and cry at the same time, because we're friends and she's leaving. I'm really going to miss her.. but is that all it is?
2006-07-17 02:49:32 · 9 answers · asked by fidelis2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont want to say or tell her that I like her more than a friend because thats why her bfs didnt last because she knew shes going to college, and i'd rather have a friend forever thatn a gf for a week..ya know, weve spent more time together this past year during school stuff than before, but i can always ask my other friend for a gf, because that seems to be more obvious. Whats odd is that when my friend broke up, I took her side, because he was a freakin jerk too,but it seems like i was the 3rd wheel, but closer when her bf wasnt around.. err.. Im just afraid to say L0<3.. I guess I'm just not good at goodbyes
2006-07-17 03:02:02 · update #1
for having 3 yrs with her it is really possible to fall in love.
i have a very close friend. we always talk about are crushes,our feelings,problems,secrets..
we become very open to each other..but that openess lead us to fall in love with each other!
now were on 2 yr relationship...and both of us are really happy....
2006-07-17 02:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jap W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can let her know how you feel and just get it out in the open. you dont want to look back at this a couple years from now and regret you didnt. who knows where it could take you.
2006-07-17 09:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like her as more than a firned but not too much. you can still keep in touch exept you need to let her go a little. if you feel very horriblre thst she left, tell her how you feel befor uits too late.
2006-07-17 09:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by open_minded_grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may like her, but you're pry in her friend zone. It sucks being in that zone....no matter how hard you try she just veiws you as a friend. But hey, it's been a dream of mankind to break that barrier, so always attempt too.
2006-07-17 09:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mellow lazy guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have feelings for her you should tell her before she leaves for college tell her you are not going to act on them because your my friends girl and she will be happy you told her and it will make your friendship all the more stronger because you told her
2006-07-17 09:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend...tell her how u feel...before da mmnt passes by....& u regret....dat sme1 else said it before u did...
though she may say no....
but if ur friendship is strong....
ur gnna be friends forever...
i have a friend...we been friends for 6 years now...& i told her i liked her...3 years back...she felt nice...dat i was open 2 her bout it....but...i didnt take a move...
i dont regret it....but yes.........am happy shes my best friend...till 2day...
2006-07-17 10:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon you should tell her how you feel.. nothing to lose really... and you will feel better at the end .. at least you can move on with life knowing.. than not knowing what could have beenn..
2006-07-17 09:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by alat_girl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you fell,Than email me I tell me what happend.
2006-07-17 09:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by elginsamlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you,
And her of course.
2006-07-17 09:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by leapinfroggy2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋