My friend broke up with her boyfriend, and she is really sad, and I think she is going to cry...but I don't know what to say to her to make her cheer up...can you help?
2006-07-17 02:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how sorry you are to hear of her loss and if she needs someone to talk to you're there for her.
Breaking up is a lot like death. She'll have to grieve.
2006-07-17 02:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that as a friend, you love her and that you will be there for her. Knowing that she has someone on her side will help her through the difficult time. And don't get discouraged if you can't cheer her up right away. She will need time.
2006-07-17 02:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by queen7bee77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is a an experience though bad , yet take it positively, as it has given space to find out her own weaknesses and his too. Tell her to meditate, if that fellow was not worthy of her love than why sad, if she wants to cry, let her cry, it will cleanse her from bad emotions, and she will be balanced soon.
2006-07-17 02:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by zahida367 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah the single most important thing you can do is be there and listen..let her vent. In my opinion, trying to distract her isn't that helpful, at least in the beginning. She needs to talk about it. Keep asking questions to keep the topic going. She'll feel better after talking.
2006-07-17 02:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by sookieruthie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know you are there for her and see if she wants to go out for a movie, walk or just to talk to get her mind off of the breakup.
2006-07-17 02:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to make light of losing a loved one. What you need to do at most is have her realize that she isn't gonna get anywhere by pouting about.
2006-07-17 02:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by puzmen26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sum times the best way to cheer up a friend is to stay away from the problem........in stead go out and do sum thing fun.....make her laugh.......when she wants to talk about it....she'll come to u!
2006-07-17 02:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you are sorry that this went wrong tell her maybe it was not met for them to be togather. be very sweet to her and show her that you care about her. bye her a gift to show her how sorry you are.
hope I help
good luck
2006-07-17 03:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by sexychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you as a friend will ALWAYS be there for her and that she can trust you!
2006-07-17 02:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by uloveme192 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about having anything specific to say - just be there for her.
2006-07-17 02:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by All gods are useless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋