ok, so i was ta;lking to my friend on mspace and then she wrote to me saying i talked behind her back. which i so did not, then we were cursing at eachother and i was really pissed off and then she tells me i was punkd which really pissed me off cuz she got me so mad and i told her that at punk'd u dotn scream and fight. i told her to leave me alone and now i lost a friend. is it my fault? i sent her a message saying im sorry but she didnt respond although she read it. what did i do wrong? am i ever gonna get her back?
2006-07-17 02:30:50 · 13 answers · asked by open_minded_grl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well me and my best friend always go through this problem that's just something that you go through being a friend when peolple try to ruin it but if you didn't talk behind her back you don't have anything to worry about she'll get around to being your friend again
2006-07-17 02:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ray Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I have been in this situation recently, fairly similar, and it seems the best to do is what u did, open the path of positivity with and apology or expressing ur true feelings, but u really have no control over the other persons thoughts or reactions to u from that point on. For whatever reason she chose to lash out at u in a very unfair and immature manner, just be the bigger person and leave her and it alone. If she is a true friend she will realize the err of her ways and want her friend back. If not u have done ur self a favor by ridding ur self of someone who would possible hurt u even more later on.
2006-07-17 02:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea It was kinda your fault, but just tell her that you were really upset because you thought it was all real and that you didn't mean all the things you said and that you just want to be friends again. I'm sure you'll get her back, if you lose her over something this dumb then she's not worth your time anyway.
2006-07-17 02:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by a-ren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. Maybe your friend just needs some time to think about what happened. Maybe she feels bad about what happened and is looking for a way to apologize to you. The thing is, you're friendship may not be the same because of the words that were exchanged.
2006-07-17 02:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your proverbial coronary heart? Or, your actual coronary heart? the respond, of direction relies upon no longer on which coronary heart you recommend, yet which suggestions you recommend? concerning the word, "he's lost his suggestions" we are able to deliver jointly that in case you probably did lose your proverbial coronary heart, you may desire to purely lose your 'suggestions' as in, your sanity, reckoning on what selections you chosen thereafter. With the suggestions as interior the 'ego' the belief procedures that usually administration us, in case you lost your proverbial coronary heart , you may extra beneficial than probably lose your suggestions because it replace into because of the fact then you definately does no longer function as a common human anymore. you will replace into robotic, lacking empathy, compassion and different human characteristics that impact the suggestions and make you human. you may replace right into a gadget, and their minds are some thing thoroughly distinctive. The question could replace into, what may be the driving stress of your new suggestions-set? What could impact your judgements? in case you meant dropping your somewhat, actual coronary heart... nicely, then i could say sure and no to dropping your suggestions, any suggestions. sure, because you would be lifeless. Your physique as you knew it could no longer be performing on any point, and subsequently be without suggestions. No, because of the fact it is asserted the 'suggestions' by no potential dies, yet overlaps from reincarnation to reincarnation, and is the reason why we inventory some behavior and suggestions with the aid of, oftentimes being perceived as genetics, dream states or deja vu. despite if it is genuinely your spirit or soul it is doing the reincarnating, the soul comes from the only soul that inhabits each little thing, and so your 'suggestions' that learns extra with each reincarnation is genuinely your very individualism. without it, you're actually not you.
2016-11-02 05:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard but maybe you should go to her house and say I'm sry to her face. Sometimes we don't know that our friends are kidding and we get a little testy. ask if you two could do something together. but don't hang with anyone else at the time.
2006-07-17 02:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by softballsweetie_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was her fault. She was punking you and she let it get way too far. You were clearly very angry and upset. She had no regard for your feelings when she let it continue to that level. YOU apologized (you were showing remorse for your part) and she didn't bother. I think you need to forget her and find a true friend.
2006-07-17 02:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look friends are friend what just happened was both your fault you just need cool off time in a few days just ring to see how she is girls always say things in the heat of the moment that there don't mean so i wouldn't worry to much i mean your girls and girls stick together
2006-07-17 02:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your friend was being very immature and hurtful. Are you certain that you want a friend like this?
2006-07-17 02:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it will work out......and its totally not ur fault.........she should leave the punking to Austin! lol...........if she doesn't want to be ur friend let her go....she should have under stud that u were upset in the first place cuz u thought ur friend ship was over.......give it time...it will work out!
2006-07-17 02:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋