she found out and we split up, i know i deserve it but now i really know she is what i really want, i love her so much but she is seeing someone else now! should i leave her alone or persue her? i really love her
2006-07-17 02:17:14 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave her alone. Who's to say you won't cheat on her again
2006-07-17 02:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by starikotasukinomiko 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to burst your bubble sweetie but if you cheated on her she's really not the one and only love in your life much less the "one" I've has many relationships before and if I even think of cheating on them then they are not the "one" But forget about her she's already moved on and you must try to find someone special now. Sorry but life is just that a way, God BLess and Good luck...
2006-07-17 02:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live and learn! Leave her alone and let her move on. Trust me...she would never truly let it go and you would constantly be reminded of what you did. Just remember how you are feeling now when then next girl friend comes along. Make sure its worth loosing her when you decide to be unfaithful!
2006-07-17 03:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave this girl alone, you had your chance with her and you blew it, thankfully she seen good sense and got rid of you.
If you had really loved her that much then you would have never had cheated in the first place!
2006-07-17 12:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, life's lessons right? You love her now that she's gone, and you might have loved her before she was gone, but while you were cheating on her you weren't thinking about loving her. This is the problem, why should anyone be with someone that chooses to love them and not love them when it is convenient?
2006-07-17 02:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you regret what you have done but if you love her then you should do what is best for her not yourself.
She has moved on from a situation that would be devastating for anyone and is seeing someone else. You should respect that and move on with your life, painful as it may be.
Wish you well.
2006-07-22 02:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u were cheatin on her, but then u knew u loved her...y did u cheat on her in the first place?!?!?!well, u can say somethin 2 her bout u love her, and tell her how sorry u are...besides that, u cant do anything, because she has a bf...leave the rest up 2 her...if u tell her, then she decides, the rest is up 2 her...good luck!!!
2006-07-17 02:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone....she might forgive but will never forget. Your relationship would never be the same again anyway. She deserves to find someone who won't make the same mistake.
2006-07-17 02:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if she will take you back, if she has moved on and found someone else then you would be best to leave her alone and let her get on with her life.
You had your chance and blew it with her, maybe you really need to move on.
2006-07-17 02:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to butt out and let her live her life.You had it good with her and YOU are the one that screwed it up.You should have thought about that before you cheated on her.You hurt her.And do you honestly think if you were to tell her this that she would come back to you?If she did she deserved it.Whos to say that you arent for sure of your feelings again and round and round you go cheating on her again.Move on with your life and find someone that will put up with unfaithfulness
2006-07-17 02:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋