Their is this guy that likes me and his is cool. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met but for some damn reason, I, just don't like him. I don't understand. He has the quailties that I want in a guy but...I don't know. When I around him, we act as though we're couples and I tell him stuff like, "I really like you," but really I don't. He takes good care of me unlike the other man that I know. What should I do in this situation?
2006-07-17 02:01:46 · 12 answers · asked by KissofRomance 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Let the poor guy go experience true love with someone else....you're just leading him on and wasting his time...he genuinely cares about you and you just lie to him.....he deserves someone who's gonna care about him the way he cares about you....
2006-07-17 02:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many a times, we always are inM & B world, not ready to take reality as it comes. Always expect the best in the world to come our way.But reality is not so. If we want light from sun, then you need to bear the heat.Moonlight and darkness go together. Hence,you will have to think and be honest to your innerself first.Whether,your thoughts match, feelsecured with each other,if you both have the same principles in life.Thse matters really are contributing factors of congineal environment at home. Looks,Money,Degrees held family background are all secondary factors.Love,respaect for each other and equal intellectual and thinking is all that matters.Try analysing what makes you not liking him.If the reasons turn out superficial, then ignoring those issues you must try to recocile for hardly one does come across a person who really cares for you.All that glitters is not always gold. Listen to your soul's voice.You'll get the right answer.
2006-07-17 09:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person. Tell him you don't reciprocate his feelings. And perhaps you might have found your best friend.
Perhaps you don't like him because he is everything we always dream a person to be, and we are scared that we will do something stupid to make them go away. (At least that is how I felt a time or two). I let the good ones get away from my insecurities.
As I mentioned, yes it is wrong to lead someone on, especially if you realize how nice of a person he really is, and ask for his friendship. If he will not take it, then perhaps it is all a show.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 09:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by jackie48083 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are using this poor guy. You are letting him think you are interested. Let me tell you, if you care for him just a little, let him know your feelings. If you only want his friendship tell him that, but probably he will be so heartbroken he won't want to be near you for a while. Give him some space. If you don't act now the damage will be even worst. It's not fair to tell someone you like him if you really don't.
2006-07-17 09:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by carolina n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. How would you feel if he was playing you for a fool? Grow up! No one likes being used!
Old Enough To Be Your Mama
2006-07-17 09:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by lynwin552 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you feel this way for him then you should just be good friends. its not cool to play with somebodys feelings like that. honesty is what counts and if you are truly honest to him then you could have a really good friendship but only if you tell him that. if you dont like him in that way then just tell him because if you dont and he finds out then it could cost you your friendship, and ask yourself is it worth it? you cant have it both ways. either you want to be with him in a relationship
like he wants or just be good friends.
2006-07-17 09:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by sunnymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong for anybody to "play" with someone else's emotions for any reason. Think about how you would feel if the tables where turned.
2006-07-17 09:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be much better of telling him now and hurting him than telling him when he proposes or something and really hurting him.
2006-07-17 09:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Hunter S. Thompson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what is your true feeling and make a right decision.
2006-07-17 09:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women women women pls let him go? how will you feel if someone treated you the same?
2006-07-17 09:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋