We have been loving near and dear for 3 years, But now since the pressure has got to the hec of it.. and her parents have started to become sick, She is very giulty. I'm prepared for marriage anytime.
but i'm helpless as she shuld decide watever now ? please help me by telling wat can i do now..
2006-07-17 01:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Nirmal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First know one thing. Marry the person WHO LOVES YOU, This goes for your partner also. If youmarry the person who loves you, then there will not be any disputes further.
Secondly, dont NEGLECT ANY LOVE bcas once you neglect, then you wont find it easily.
Taking these into considerations, first, if your gal truely loves you, dont leave her. Say the above two sentences to her also and about your love too. Still if she gets brain washed, its her fault and she is not that lucky to marry you. Lets all wish that you will marry your gal.
2006-07-17 01:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by pradeepraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused as to whats going on.....no offense but your grammer is horrible. But from what I get from that I think you should stick by her side. It's very hard to see someone's parents get sick and I think you should hold off on the marriage for now. You can always get married after this passes but right now I think it would just be too stressful for her. Try and help her parents out yourself also, then she will see how dedicated you are to her and they will see that your not such a bad guy. Hopefully they will get better soon and everything will be better.
2006-07-17 01:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she feel guilty because she feels she should help her parents who are ill but yet spend time with your? This is the time to sit down and make some serious decisions if it is. If she is their only child, or the one in her family closest to them, she may feel that it is her responsibility or her duty to look after them. If she feels this way, try to find out if she would accept help from the government, their insurance program and from other family members. If she is determined to do most of the work though, are you willing to take on a house that would allow them to live in it as well? My aunt and uncle did this. They built a house with a decent apartment on the ground floor and they live on the second floor and shared things are on the ground floor. This way they have their own space, but they can still check in on her parents daily. If you love her, that means loving her through the roles she has to play for family. Are you willing to accept her with her parents included if they need her help?
2006-07-17 01:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 05:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sad! everything has the right time.. if not now so be patient God has another plan for you dont get in a hurry by getting married, coz its not that easy dear if you realy love that girl so be patient...TRUE LOVE CAN WAIT.
2006-07-17 01:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by sweet24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.Talk to her about your relationship.Maybe you should prove to her parents that you are good enough for their daughter.Maybe they think you arenot good enough for her. Workon winning her parents over. Shower your girl with love and understand her position. She is caught between her parents and the man she loves. Goodluck. I hope good things happen for you.
2006-07-17 01:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by gracie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
propose to her now if she said no... then give her more time, months or year if u can still wait.. if u think the relation going nowhere sad to say but u two have to end it up.
2006-07-17 01:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes letting her parents tell her what to do now, it will be that way through the whole marraige so maybe this is letting you see what your future with her would be like!
2006-07-17 01:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her Alon and tell her how you really feel about her and that you are willing to do anything for her and no matter what that you will always love her and see what she does
2006-07-17 01:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by lilly85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya'll jus need to run off to vegas and get married , and if her parents dont like it they jus dont like
2006-07-17 01:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋