i love her and want her to be happy with whatever she chooses,my problem is that she has been hanging around older lesbians as well as younger its like a circle of gays and an exclusive club,she thinks she might be bi cause she still likes guys i feel these women arent giving her a chance to really sort out her feelings,and that really bothers me,and there always coming on to her and making her feel like they are her only freinds we dont talk as much anymore either cause she relys on them, i just told her please do what u want to do, dont be influenced by others
2006-07-17 01:41:54 · 9 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you've been supportive, and you're concerned. But you've said what you need to say. She's going to do what she wants to do.
What is your question?
2006-07-17 01:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i know you really care about her, and i understand how you feel since im in the same present position with someone i know, how long has this been going on? if it has only began then i say you should try and talk to her and tell her how you feel, if you two are such close friends then i think she wont mind, be honest with her, the more you hide it the further she'll go, tell her what you think of the people she's now hanging out with, tell her that your okay with the whole lesbo thing since this might be only for a short time, you'll never know this might be a faze she's going through, But if this has gone for a long time i suggest you do the same thing but more firm of what you want from her, cuz you cant go on seeing your best friend doing all sorts while your just there sucking it in, act as soon as possible before things get any worse.
2006-07-17 01:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lyka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT will all work out in the end my best friend was engaged and has two children to him and she ended up splitting up with him for a girl it made me feel a bit strange at first but then i realised that it was her choice and that she was still the same person i meet all those years ago don't destroy your friendship over something like this if your her friend well then be a friend and be there no matter what
2006-07-17 02:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really ask a question, but your last line is the answer, and it shows the wisdom of a true friend: Do what you want to do, and don't be influenced by others.
2006-07-17 01:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you gave her some good advice. She is just exploring right now, don't let it ruin your friendship. Just give her the space she needs, she will come back around and realize who her true friends are. Be there for her when she needs you.
2006-07-17 01:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you have chosen to love and accept her, no matter what! Maybe she can also love and accept these lesbian ladies without falling into the trap. I really don't know. Just be there for her, no matter what!
2006-07-17 01:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only she can sort out her own feelings. She has to make these decision, based on her needs.
2006-07-17 01:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like someone's jealous
2006-07-17 01:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would make her feel happy to talk to people that know what she is going through
2006-07-17 01:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by kaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋