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Now I am seriously thinking of dropping her all together from my wedding and my life. I was going to after the wedding, but I can't imagine her being my maid of honor when she is behaving like a spoiled jealous brat. Doing this though means that I lose another of my brides maids probably, her sister, and her whole family won't come to my wedding; I don't see why they would if I do drop her as my maid of honor. Should I and if so how should I tell her? Or should I just ride it out for 3 more months and deal with it. She already has her dress but I don't really care about that. Im so hurt.
2006-07-17 01:38:38 · 4 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should definetly drop her. As someone that is your best friend it is her responsibilty to be there for you all the way through the wedding process. A true friend would be excited to go dress shopping with you. The last thing you need on your special day is her spoiling it.
2006-07-17 02:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by a-ren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need NO MORE STRESS than you have already planning a wedding . Set her little BUTT down and tell her how you feel and what shes doing that erks you . Also let her know you re thinking about asking her to drop out because of the stress she's causing , no doubt her sisters and family already know and wouldn't hold it against you . I they don't come to the wedding then they really were only there to see their kids in the wedding . When it's YOUR WEDDING DAY .! so go ahead ,, be diplomatic and talk, you want anymore advice call me ... e-mail me , I've been through this many times ... GOOD LUCK
2006-07-17 08:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by vpsinbad50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My finace was going to have this woman she's knows as one of her bridesmaids. This woman has some issues that she needs to deal with, however my fiance wanted to ask her anyway.
Before she did, I reminded her, 'This is our wedding, do not invite/ask people that you do not want there. Do not ask just to make your parents happy or anyone else. Ask people that you want to come, otherwise you will be unhappy. However I will support you in who you choose'.
She didn't ask this woman to be bridesmaid, because of those reasons. So, if you don't think you will be happy, don't invite her. It may be difficult to do, but you may regret not doing it.
2006-07-17 08:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has hurt you too much. Such people should not be welcome on one of your most important days of your life.
She doesn't deserve to be a part of your happiness because there is the possibility that she could ruin it too. She is probably jealous and wants what you have. Don't give her the satisfaction of ruining your happy day.
2006-07-17 08:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋