2006-07-17 01:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by psmom2006 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, I used to stay in my room until she shops scolding. And I always remain silent and seldom (rare) answer back . But recently , (about a month ago) she scolded me unreasonably, so I answsered back . She was very angry and went into my room when I opened the door she pushed hard and it accidentally crashed my lip and it still hurt . I was angry and is still angry .
2006-07-17 01:48:46 · update #1
The worse thing is that my little son who doesn't understand the meaning of her curse and can sing as her grand mother said .
2006-07-17 01:51:13 · update #2
She has no other relatives so I must let her stay with us.
2006-07-17 02:08:05 · update #3
Thanks n3mentx . Yes, I think she may be suffer from dementia becasue she said I took over her property.In fact , it is still in our joint a/c .I didn't do that and I showed her the document but she still doesn't believe me and cursed me. And she moved her deposit to other bank in her own name. So what should I do as she treat me as a thief.
2006-07-17 02:18:31 · update #4
Nothing. She's a grown woman and can do and say what she pleases. Now, if you have kids and she swears around them... it's perfectly OK to ask her to stop (for the kids) but other than that... let mum be mum.
2006-07-17 01:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is making her angry? Is she under the influence of alcohol or drugs? Is she under a lot of stress? Is she suffering from dementia? Something must be setting her off.
When she gets angry it is best to whisper something like "Mom, what do you want from me?" People who scream and curse when angry feel like they aren't being heard/their needs aren't being met. Seek to understand what is going on with her.
It might be best to sit down and chat with her when she is NOT angry. Tell her what you have observed in a matter-of-fact sort of way. (ie. "This week you yelled and cursed at me three times. You have never done that in the past.") Ask her if something is going on that you can help her with.
Things appear to be escalating. It is NOT a good environment for a young child. Maybe you should think about alternative living arrangements.
2006-07-17 09:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by n3mentx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some tight pants and tell her
"It's my life
It's now or never
I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said
I did it my way
I just wanna live while I'm alive
It's my life"
And if she doesn't respect Jon Bon Jovi then the woman doesn't have a soul
2006-07-17 08:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is old. Her ways cannot be changed.
Try not to make her angry and then maybe she won't curse you.
Sorry, I know that that can be painful.
2006-07-17 08:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make her angry less often...and ask her if she kisses her mother with that mouth. haha (don't do that)
2006-07-17 08:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it upsets you. Have a sitdown heart to heart.
2006-07-17 08:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her and don't make her angry.
2006-07-17 08:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her.afterall she is your mum.
2006-07-17 08:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by ninnaajji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient and obedient... so she wont get angry... she is your mom anyway... and bear with her because she is old
2006-07-17 08:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by boyang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain silent.
2006-07-17 08:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by phenoixbeauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋