All my life I experience how jelous people try all they can to ruin my relationships with girls and therefore I am still alone. They lie, cheat and pretend. Are the girls so stupid or they want to believe what such jelous people tell them? Why jelous people always prevail with their evil plans and deeds?
2006-07-17 01:23:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
please dont let these people affect you... and let your girl feel how sincere and faithful you are... and she shouldnt believe what she hears from others... if she really cares for you... she wont mind anything but you... because she loves you
2006-07-17 01:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by boyang 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Jealous people do this because they are angry when someone is showing them that they can have a good life with someone (and this shows them up. Then jealous people wonder what is wrong with them. and feels if I can not have a good life then neither will they and then they start speading lies and sat back and watch the relationship crumble.
But the reason why most women believe lies is because of mistrust in the first place. Most men DO chose to be with more than one woman at a time. ( And that is a lot of men) So much loose sex, women are getting afraid of catching AIDS. In a terrible world it PAYS to be cautious. It PAYS to question. Then there are women who lies and would tell a man it is his child ( and it is not) A man has the right to ask questions and a right to be cautious even if it is his girlfriend-if he heard that this is NOT his child.
Think about what will happen if you do not question.
But if two people love each other and KNOW that they can trust each other. Then they have nothing to worry about and they can ignore that jealous person.
So jealous people have a lot of help when it comes to breaking up relationships.
2006-07-17 08:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls believe the others because unfortantly noawadays it's very common that people cheat. And so it's very hard to not believe someone could be cheating on you. I dont know how you know these people that are causing problems in your relationships but you need to find a way to distance yourself from them if they are lying. Hey there's always restraining orders.
2006-07-17 08:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to figure that out now! This girl that I thought was a friend just went behind my back 2 days ago telling this guy that I USED to talk to that I told her, in detail, business between he & I! (& his goofy butt believed her!). Anyway, this girl has tried her best over the last 2 yrs 2 make me as miserable as she is by belittling me, lying to me, plotting behind my back ON my birthday (twice!), etc. She has been nothing but a thorn in my side (or a pain in my a$$ is more like it) because she is jealous of me. The funny thing is, people were telling me she was jealous of me all along but I tried to give the freak the benefit of the doubt. We are no longer friends because this last incident was the last straw. U have to learn to ignore jealous people & go your own way. Jealousy is just ammo to make myself better. Since I knew she was jealous of me, Id dress better, Id try to accomplish more, educate myself on more things to have better conversation, anything! Its like you are shutting them down & making yourself better at the same time!
2006-07-17 08:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by WhatheHell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A strong, healthy relationship can usually survive those kinds of attacks. Sometimes when people are unhappy within themselves, they resent that others can be and are happy. They set out to hurt those people by upsetting their happiness. This is why they say "misery loves company." Sorry that happened to you.
2006-07-17 08:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well man i know how u r feeling and its does sux. either its the guys hating on u or girls giving her ever reason to not be with u. what i did was tell her str8 out that no matter what u hear i will always tell u the truth. u must belive me always and if u want to know something tell me. so either she will do that or its justwont work. yes girls belive what they r told alot of the time and its sad cuz they may be lied to and lose a good guy. just cuz it didnt work out with them they want it to not work out with u. so yeah man if she cant understand find a girl who dont know them and c if that helps. good luck man
2006-07-17 08:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationships with girls are ruined not because of others, but because you are ignorant and can't even spell or have the sense to use a spell check.
2006-07-17 08:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evil will NOT triumph in the end. Although evil may seem to be winning at present, God will crush evil in the end.
2006-07-17 08:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always thought that people medle with other peoples buisnes when they do not have life or their own. so, since you cant make other peoples lifes fullfield, in this case, try keeping a low profile. and talk to the girl instead of them.
2006-07-17 08:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by belistvor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be jealous, means to be fearful of losing what one has to another.
From what I understand, you have someone in your life whom is ruining your relationships, maybe because they think you should be with them.
What you need to do is figure out who it is that is telling lies about you & put their lies to a stop.
2006-07-17 08:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are just people, they will never be contented. Thus, they will always be jealous.
Jealous people will never be successful in ruining others lives if other people are smart enough to reject jealous peoples lies!!!
2006-07-17 08:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by Lee_386 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋