Well....I am 18 and the guy that i am talking to is 21 and I have restrictions on my life right now and basically I cannot got out with him...like and cant go on dates and to parties all I can do with him is talk to him on the phone...because I still ive at home and my mom does not like me being gay...But he wants to be in a relationship with me and He says that he likes me and wants to be with me....But you know people get bored after a while and I think that he is going to go look for something else...
2006-07-17 01:09:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like you need to be on your own before you can be with anyone. Are you going to college? Maybe you could wait it out until you are away at college and then have some fun there. Just be sure you learn about having safe sex. Aids is real. You can get it through anal or oral sex. Condom should always be worn.
2006-07-17 01:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since, your young you should just date around a little not be in a committed relationship. and you should also tell your mom that she shouldn't dislike you because your gay. You should tell her that even though your gay, you would love her support and that she's not the one who has to deal with the decision. And that your the one who has to live with the decision. And I know how you feel I'm 18 and I've been in the same situation that your in right now.
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2006-07-17 14:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let this one get away and just don't start fishing for a boyfriend till you have freedom to do so. This will give you the determination to build up your life to get out and make a living.
Good luck with that.
Randy
2006-07-17 10:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doiesn't sound like it will be a very fun relationship - too many issues to deal with - if I were you I would wait until you were ready and able to be a in a relationship you can enjoy!
2006-07-17 10:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be fair on him or you to classify each as the other's boyfriend if you are unable to be together, freely.
You'll probably have to pass on this opportunity and wait until these restrictions no longer apply.
Sorry.
2006-07-17 09:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey, all he really probably wants. is your ***. If he really wanted you he would wait, if he moves along that means he didn't really like you that much, and don't worry so much you are 18 and there are plenty of sharks in the ocean, i say sharks because it describes gay men better then fish.
2006-07-17 21:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Advice Whore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u think is real if u and him are going to parties and on dates u and him are COOL but if yall are togther like boyfriend girlfriend u and him are HOT so be cool for a little while
2006-07-17 09:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Troy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you are able to spend more time with him, for whatever reason you cannot now, you are not ready to make any "boyfriend" type decisions.
2006-07-17 09:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for him, it may be worth the risk. You have to open up to someone eventually, why not him?
2006-07-17 10:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow of your heart !
2006-07-17 10:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋