What could be the reason. No one came to see the baby or showed any interest in her. Should I still call them and try keeping in touch.
2006-07-17 01:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by chere d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In all honesty these people don't sound like true friends. True friends go through all your life experiences with you, be it through telephone or in person. They celebrate in your joys and uplift in times of sorrows. Perhaps these people only wanted to be your friend when it benefited them in some way. Like having someone to hang out with or something like that. I wouldn't call them because your the one who just had the baby (congratualtions by the way) they should have been calling you. Just find new ones. If they do end up calling you. Call them on their behavior find out what their so called excuse is. i'm sorry you had to go through that. If you were my friend i would have been at your baby shower, delivery room and at your house after the babay was born just to see if you needed something. The poor baby would be spoiled by me. you'd be telling me to leave...lol but thats just how i am with my friends they never have to wonder if i care because i show them.
2006-07-17 01:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sxyblkdiva 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that happens. It happened to me, but i was way too busy to worry about keeping in touch with them, either. After a while you will see that you and your friends won't have anything to talk about . They have a different life than you do now, and maybe they just want to give you time to yourself for your baby. Sure, keep trying to contact them, but try to find yourself some more friends, too. Some mommy friends. It will be good for you. Good luck!
2006-07-17 08:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have acquired a whole new set of responsibilities! At this point, you really shouldn't even have time to deal with any of them. Your child is more important!
As far as them 'sticking by you'- maybe they are jealous of the baby, maybe they don't like the situation you brought the baby into (are you married, had an affair, one nite stand, etc.)
At any rate, concentrate on the baby, not your friends.
2006-07-17 08:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try, but it sounds to me like they are not ur real friends. A true friend wouldn't have forgotten about you when you most need them. They sound shallow and self centered. Lose them! How is the baby doing? Boy or Girl?
2006-07-17 08:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by X's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not.There is no common ground left.Try to find new friends like moms with children.That way you can learn from some of their experience with children,and have more commom things to talk about.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-17 08:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may be u should check if it was accidental that none of them keeps in touch with you. u know they might have thought they will with others on u. but if its intentional then i dont think the they are worth loosing your sleep over.
2006-07-17 08:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by vampire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of such behaviors. I would give them ONE call and see whats going on and then I would leave it and them alone.
2006-07-17 08:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get disapponited, they will certanily come to see you, may be they are giving you both time to get rest and be healthy and fresh again with new duties.
2006-07-17 08:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by zahida367 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they`re showing you respect
2006-07-17 08:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Scott R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋