2006-07-17 00:59:25 · 11 answers · asked by arshiya z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to have a talk with your man, tell him your likes and dislikes. tell him where to touch you, how to please you. if he doesn't care, then you found the wrong man and its not gonna get better and you will cheat on him with a guy who shows you he wants to please you. but give him a chance he probably doesn't have experience or he's a pretty boy who never learned to please a woman because he only cares about himself getting pleasure. but at least give him a chance, (he probably has low confidence)... hope it works for you, (i hate hearing about women not getting pleased from there b/f or husbands.)
2006-07-17 01:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by gottheanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if I have understood your question correctly.
Instead of cheating on him, take charge.
Tell him exactly what you expect, how, when & where.
When one partner isn't satisfying the other, it may be time for a change. Become the Dom, make him the Sub.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 08:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage and esp. sex is a give and take. It's not about one person being satisfied while the other is not. If you're having sex with him just to keep him happy while it does nothing for you, it'll lead to frustration in the long run.
Having said that, what is your question?
2006-07-17 08:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fake an orgasm. By doing that, you are telling him that what he is doing is working. You need to be honest and tell him it isn't working and then give the man directions on how he can please you.
2006-07-17 08:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lying to him about your satisfaction. You need to tell him what he is doing wrong, or what he can do to satisfy you. If you do not communicate about it your going to be lying about this for the rest of your life with him.
2006-07-17 08:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak a english
2006-07-17 08:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....so you're faking it? Lots of women do it....but experiment and see what gets u there........then talk sexily to ur hubby to get him to do that....good luck!!
2006-07-17 14:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you do not cheating him, when he is thinking just about himself that mean he do.
2006-07-17 08:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by anoud s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you cheat yourself too
2006-07-17 08:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what is your question?
2006-07-17 08:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by bhagyanath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋