He thinks it's disgusting, but at the beginning of our relationship, we also had sexual intercourse while I was having my period. Then, his best friend told him that sex with an mentruating woman would "cause problems down there", and now he refuses to have sex with me and I can't convince him that it's okay if I take a shower before.
2006-07-17 00:20:41 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ sannah ♥ 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
tell him the mestrual fluid is extremely sterile and its only degraded blood products and its completely harmless. and he shouldnt ve a problem if u dont. and that his best friend is a fool
2006-07-17 00:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 05:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its each to their own,i was the same last month,my boyfriend seen the look on my face and obliged me even though i was on a period.
It doesnt bother him.
Who ever told your partner he can have problems having sex while your on a period is dumb.
Alot of people view it as sinful and not very nice but as i said its each to their own.
I wont give my boyfriend oral sex unless he has a wash,no matter how clean he is he still has to wash and thats just my thing.
If your husband wont obliged you while your on your period there is absolutely nothing you can do.
christy
2006-07-17 00:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that. Um, I dunno why it's the only time girls get really-horney. Maybe cause it's naughty? If it goes agsainst his morals then you'll just have to leave it. He'll feel hurt maybe if he's driven wild whilst you're on your period and he may be upset that he was taken so far.
You can give him release with your hands or mouth, if you like, I've never heard anyone saying that's wrong. Not even if you have a period.
2006-07-17 00:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by welcome_to_how_things_will_be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy..try to turn him on first by helping him to masturbate. Guys get horny and desperate for sex once you play with their dick. My gf use to wear something low cut which will reveal some of her cleavage which in the end turn me on and I had sex with her even when she is having her period. Trust me cause I am also a guy who is afraid to have sex with girls while they are having period.
2006-07-17 01:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by noodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him in the shower. Tell him whatever "problems" his friends told him, you can both clean up immediately afterwards.
2006-07-17 01:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by vascsono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know how turned on you get during this time? Remind him its intercourse, he doesn't have to go down on you. If you can't convince him- sorry about his luck.
2006-07-17 00:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by trcyrb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't tell him bout your period!!! After he notices it's too late anyways!
Otherwise you could tell him to believe that you're a virgin. Maybe he gets his kicks out of that...
2006-07-17 21:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it is usually before and during the periods, coz of hormonal changes going on....so not to worry....go for it after the periods.
2006-07-17 00:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by watermelon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, you can't wait until after you period is over.
2006-07-17 00:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋