Hi, I am 28 F and living in India. When i was 16 i got a tattoo of a 'nude wizard casting a spell' on a very intimate region on my upper body (on a dare).
I am going to get married in the next month and i feel that this tattoo on this are may not be appreciated by my hubby. Please advice.
2006-07-17 00:05:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Have you never asked him what he thinks of it? And if not, are you sure you want to marry someone you can't talk to about trival stuff like this?
The tattoo does sound a little embarrasing but if you still like it (and your fiance has never aired any disapproval) then why get rid of it? But if you are know uncomfortable with it then I would suggest getting it removed (contact your local clinics/hospitals). Laser removal does hurt and costs a bit but if it'll make you happier then it's got to be worth it.
Good luck with the wedding - enjoy your day with or without the tattoo
2006-07-17 00:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by angelina.rose 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To quote a book: As ye sow so shall ye reap...
Go to a parlor and have some clothes added to your wizard. Or go to a removal specialist and do the other thing.
And remember that choice you made on a dare whenever these opportunities come up. There be good learning for ya.
2006-07-17 00:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Steve D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I hope he's a modern man. But it sounds as if he hasn't seen you nude, so I'm assuming religion has a part in that. How will he tolerate it? Another man tattooing your body. YIKES. He's going to be apoplectic. Are you in danger of a beating? Or being treated badly after your marriage because of this?
I'd do a runner. While you still can.
2006-07-17 00:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre the same person with the sex issue tot u were 27 how come ure 28 now. well. Why did you get the tattoo at first? try getting it off or something.
2006-07-17 01:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get them removed at several beauty centres specialized in removing unwanted tattoos..but make sure it's done by an experienced professional.
Another idea for those thinking of getting tattoos but worried they may not like it later, you can always go for henna, nice,painless and temporary.
2006-07-17 00:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want rid of it permanently then I think you will have to get laser surgery or another tattoo over it, but if you can also get make up that will cover the tattoo thought this would be costly if you want to cover it all the time. good luck
2006-07-17 01:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth sets you free! This is burdening you, so you must tell him. Your lifelong love should also have the choice to accept and love and understand THE REAL YOU, the tattto is part of that person, the real you. Tell him. He loves you and he will accept the tattoo, and you will feel the weight of the world lift off your shoulders, dear. I promise you that.
2006-07-17 01:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not a rehearsal; we only live once. When we do not cherish the opportunities we haf, they slip away into the shadows and wld most probably never knock on our door again. We only regret and reflect after disasters haf struck. We feel regretful over stuff that we could have done better or wat we did not do at all. However, it is no use crying over split milk. Sometimes, endings can signify a new beginning...
2006-07-17 00:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short of tatoo removal, you are stuck with it, explain to hubby that you regret it, but that you are stuck with it, it was a folly of youth, and does not portray the person you are. If it is an arranged marriage, hubby is stuck with it too. If its a love marriage, you should know him well enough to discuss this with him by now. You never know, he may well like it.
2006-07-17 00:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Tefi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, you should be honest with your future husband and tell him flat out and explain it to him. If you honestly regret having it done and would like it removed you should discuss it with him. The worst thing you can do is start a new marriage with secrets and lack of communication. These two things are "key" to a wonderful and happy marriage. ;)
2006-07-17 00:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by conniemcgee2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋