I have posted this question before.my husband left me for some woman half his age I have since then throw him out of the house,should I file for divorce or just wait. I'm also very confused if I want him back.
2006-07-17 00:02:13 · 23 answers · asked by Valerie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
set a timetable.
promise yourself some time out....just don't even think about the whole thing for, let's say five weeks.
you have some time to step back from the problem and you get on with enjoying life.
at the end of the time out you sit down and give it some thought.
anyway, where I am you have to be separated for at least 12 months before you can file for divorce.
2006-07-17 00:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want an 'honest' guys opinion, move on. File for divorce and don't look back. Why would you want to go back to someone who has betrayed you? If it's happened once you can guarantee it to happen again, so don't fall for it. Life is too short and there are a lot of guys out there who wouldn't do that kind of thing to you even though a theme here on Yahoo! Answers is that all guys cheat. Not true! I don't know how recent this is for you but time will heal your hurt feelings and after you regain your own independence you should work your way into the dating world and you'll see that there are plenty of guys you could be way more happy with. It may take a while to weed out the bad ones and find that one good one but you will if you try. I met my Fiance on Lavalife and speaking through her experience she chatted with, met and or dated 20 guys before she found me and now we are an on-line dating success story. Good luck.
2006-07-17 00:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't confuse Love with being comfortable with each other. Filing for divorce is totally up to you. You know what the right decision is in this case. Just remember you don't want someone who cheats on you. You may want to seek some professional help on how to build your self esteem. Your worth more than that.
2006-07-17 06:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lynette W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you don't want a divorce, why throw him out of the house? Unless you can live with him having another woman, if not, you should file a divorce and find yourself someone who really appreciate and love you.
2006-07-20 20:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are confused at this moment, why don't take a break and cool down. Once you have done that, think carefully what is your next move. I don't know if you have any kids in your family and how long have both of you being married.
Since you have throw him out of your house, I assumed that he had stayed with the other woman.
Do you think you can accept him once again even he leave the woman? I think only you can answer the question yourself. So make the right decision and carry on with your life.
2006-07-17 03:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're confused if you want him back? Do you enjoy being married to a man you can't trust? If so, don't get divorced quite yet. However, if you respect yourself and won't let him walk all over you, then yes, divorce and move on.
2006-07-17 00:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just a minute of folly on his part but it will also be very dificult for you to live with him again and forget that he has betrayed you before. You got to ask yourself "Does the children and I need him?" Divorce is actually escaping from the reality.
Why is you husband seeking love from other younger woman?
Is he going for the looks or the love and passion which he couldn't get from you?
Remember your marriage vow..
Get your hubby back if you still have feelings for him...
Best Wishes...
2006-07-18 15:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by KAREN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage bond, is connected when two people at the alter make a promise and/or vows to one another. God is invited into that marriage once the (pastor, minister, justice of the peace etc.) announces "what God has joined together let no man separate" Now God has given us a way out of marriages that have gone bad. "Adultery" is the answer. Why? because that type of act breaks the marriage bond. So I said all that to say this, your husband left you for another woman and have broken the marriage bond between the two of you. You now have a Godly reason as well as a legal reason for "Divorce" However, if you do decide to take him back please ask yourself this very important question. "Will I be able to trust him again" the answer is either "Yes" or "No" there is no in between. You see, without trust a marriage will not survive (lack of trust puts people in bondage of their emotions and thoughts). So if your answer is "No" to the trust question then divorce is your answer. Pray on your situation ask God to help guide you on what decision is right for you to make.
2006-07-17 00:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get a freaking lawyer! Quit talking to her. You are asking for conflict when you do talk to her. You are not legally obligated to discuss your intentions with her, so stop! If she threatened you physically, you need to report it. Since you already know that she's the type of person who would lie to authorities in order to have you arrested, shouldn't you remove yourself from the situation so that she can't do that again, or do worse?! I understand not having faith in the system. Truly. You better find a way to account for all your time, so that she doesn't get another opportunity to set you up. And for goodness sakes, quit freaking talking to her! Let your lawyer handle it!
2016-03-16 00:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-17 00:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋