Okay, so all through the schoolyear, (almost) I hear a rumor from my best friend that the 'hottest boy' in the school likes me. (she had class with him and asked him) Oh, and my bf and I had not broken up yet, but I could tell it was coming. Same thing for this boy who liked me about him and his gf. So everytime I came around him whether alone or with friends, he'd either look at me and walk by, try to hide, or speak anyways. After my bf and I broke up, (which was in January, break-up month) later on at the end of the schoolyear, he would come up to me and hug me and then in gym one day, he came and sat beside me and started feeling on my leg where I had wrote "class of 2010" and got all close to me! (I loved it too ;~D) Then the next day, he was no where to be found near me except in gym while we were running. Why wouldn't he fess up? (Also, him and my x-bf were friends I think...)
2006-07-16 23:30:53 · 12 answers · asked by Adelaide_21 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sometimes feelings are really hard for guys to deal with! When they have strong feelings for someone they tend to get scared and run like crazy when it happens! he could be worried that u dont like him in the same way! he gave u a sign that he likes you now its your turn to show him that you like him too! He is just as afraid of rejection as girls are. Ask if he wants to go to the movies with yiou. If you dont ask you will never know! Then you will kick yourself in the butt everyday for NOT asking! GO FOR IT!
2006-07-17 09:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well, if they are or were friends then he (the new guy) might be playing you to see if you diss your ex, then he might go back and spill the beans. They could be both playing you, to swap stories about you. It could be a big set up to breaking your heart real bad. Then again, the new guy might just be testing the waters to see how you both feel and act about things......before really jumping into something with both feet.
Good luck ..... and becarefull
2006-07-17 06:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by blueyedangel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys have trouble expressing themselves. He might feel shy around you due to the fact that he really likes you, or that he is out for one thing. I found out the hard way when I was your age, and just play it safe. If you guys are ment to be together you will be...Just be patient
2006-07-17 06:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by shauna m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are obsessing way too much over this guy. Just have fun with your girl friends and be proud of who you are. Relationships of the romatic kind are not that important. Obviously, he feels insecure about approaching you but that is his problem- not yours.
2006-07-17 06:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this a typical situation of a guy!!! Same thing happened to me also. i could not have the guts to come to my gf and confess my true feelings to her.I would just look at her and smile!!! Later SHE came to me and asked me if i loved her. I said tht i was crazy after her and at tht moment we made out!!!!! its crazy but its true!!!! Its your turn now......go ask the man!!!!!
2006-07-17 06:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ian d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of guy is he? What kind of girl are you? Answer the second question before thinking about the first one.
2006-07-17 06:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by donald d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably just trying to check you out because you may be hot... i dont know but watch out you dont want to get your heart broken because he was only feeling you out for a couple months.
2006-07-17 08:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Hill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playig games ma. Fotget about him...
2006-07-17 08:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by NENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with blueyed mom71.
2006-07-17 06:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out and if he says no... it's no big deal. he probably doesn't knwo whether you like him or not and doesn't want to freak you out if you don't like him... so just ask him out and go for it.
2006-07-17 10:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by musicfish93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋