Why is this?

Question

I hate it sometimes when i say hi and they say hi and i say how r u? they says there fine but they dont say anythign about how i am? i get so annoyed they dont dont have any manours it just pi**** me off please when someone says how r u? say ur fine and say and how r u? or at least and you! and i dont know which category i dont think they have one for manours do they?

Answer 1

i know how you feel, you ask them and they dont say in return maybe they think that your fine and ur asking them about them selfs.

Answer 2

Humans always pride themselves to be a higher species because of their ability to think and make decisions. In my opinion, the ability to think is starting to get in the way of our lives. Because people think, and everyone think differently, quarrels and fights are started. Because people think, their school essays get discredited; students are not supposed to think, they are supposed to 'think' like people of the past who had written some books or some form of evidence and include those in the essays. Because people think, those who don't think have to conform to the ideas of the former. Because people think, they cannot come to a decision about some things and it will always be there, never-ending, never gonna be solved. Because people think. Too much in fact. Wouldn't it be good if everyone just do things without thinking too much? Go for it. On impulse. On instinct. Would that make things better? Look what has all the thinking done to us. Yes, we have the technology, the entertainment and everything else which people of the past did not have but we no longer have the simplicity in people. I'm not saying that people in the past did not think but they were smarter. They don't think so much. What's the point of thinking so much and still no conclusion and decision could be made? Doesn't that make you feel worse?

Bottomline: we think too much. Don't k. To whoever this is applicable to.

so if ppl say hi to u, dun think so much, just say hi back.hahaha

Answer 3

The how are you question serves no purpose but politness. It's futhile to ask someone this. I never do. In fact when someone asks me how I am I usually say bad (for a change). You shouldn't get pi**** anymore cause you'll be the only one getting hurt.

Answer 4

The question how are you has turned into just something people say. Escpecially if their response is "fine" Do you really want to hear that they are having a bad day? most people don't. I don't ask the question because I don't want to know.

Answer 5

when you ask someone how are you, they generally assumes that things with you are ok and that the reason why they do not ask you. Come on, I do thing greeting is one circumstance that should come from the heart and where we expect nothing in return as long as our questions are answered.

Answer 6

Mo,

These people that don't ask how you are simply don't have good manners. If you really wanted to get even, you could say (assuming they don't ask how you are), oh don't worry I'm fine too. It will probably embarrass them, if you are feeling particularly vindictive that day. lol

m

Answer 7

some people may have just a little to much on their minds to think of even replying to your gesture of goodwill othertimes people are in just to much of a hurry to even think of replying it is all a matter of concsiousness and alertness at the time.so not all situations are a matter of rudness or impoliteness it is all a matter of good timing

Answer 8

I am the opposite to you.
I hate that "how are you?" crap.
It's just a boring ritual.
Can't you have a freaking conversation with your own words??
Mister, just lighten up and start talking.

Answer 9

on the situation your having have you considered the other person is busy talking to someone else and maybe swapped with IM'S

Answer 10

When someone says "how are you ?" it is a greeting. IT IS NOT A QUESTION.