The problem is I obey her, she refuses on the ground that she is fat (twin deliveries and then another operation). I am stymied...I have a feeling she thinks i want to dominate....any similar experiences or anythin anybody wanna share?
2006-07-16 22:46:24 · 2 answers · asked by easyboy 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
My hubby and I both tell each other what we like to see on the other. Its not about dominating, its about trying to please your partner with something that's really easy to do.
2006-07-16 22:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not obey her because she asks you to wear a certain article of clothing. You don't mind wearing that article of clothing. Apparently, your wife minds wearing jeans and a t-shirt if she is refusing. Obedience has nothing to do with it.
Self-esteem after weight gain is difficult especially because women are constantly seeing celebrities who are back to their pre-pregnancy weight within a few weeks sometimes. If you want to help your wife, ask her what she needs to feel better about herself and help her set some goals and work on them. Maybe you two can walk together, you can sit with the children while she goes to the gym, give her time for herself during the week to relax and pamper herself, etc. When she feels better about her appearance, she will feel better about wearing various types of clothing. Until then, she needs your support and understanding more than ever.
2006-07-17 05:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋