.... I'm male , ... and right now .. fell allot of attraction with my friend's wife !.she talled me that she loves me ! ... and I kinda feel the same way !...I dont wanna betray my friend ! ... but at the same time I love his wife !... what should I do ?
2006-07-16 22:26:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Sure, I have never cared what trailer trash does with whoever's wife, and judging from your spelling, you qualify.
2006-07-16 22:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? My advise is turn around and walk away. You are already betraying your friend with the way you feel about his wife, let alone the two of you expressing your feelings to each other.
Here is one fact which everyone may or may not agree with.... Love doesn't just grow out of nowhere. It starts with an idea which turns into a shallow feeling at first. Then entertaining the idea and the feeling nurtures it to grow deeper and turn it into something more meaningful which is now referred to as LOVE.
In short, what you feel for your friend's wife, what is happening with both of you right now, YOU ALLOWED it to happen. With that alone, you have already betrayed your friend, destroyed the trust he had for you, and threw away everything. If you were really his friend, you wouldn't have entertained the idea in the first place.
I hope you would do the right thing and just turn your back on her. If it is so difficult to do, just imagine what it would feel like if the tables were turned and it is your friend who did this to you. What would you feel? And remember, what goes around, comes around. If your friend's wife did this to your friend, how can you be sure that she won't do the same to you? Right?
2006-07-16 23:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is so common sense, that I have a really hard time believing that the question is even real. Of COURSE it's not ok. Instead of worrying about getting with your friend's wife, maybe you should use that time to study spelling. You could really use the help. And I don't think you can even call that person your friend anymore, because you certainly aren't a friend to him!
2006-07-16 22:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The clearly have marital problems.She's using you as a way to;r get some positive attention that she feels she's not getting from him/a good reason to get out of the marriage.If she doesnt use u ,she'll find someone else to use as a scapegoat.By entertaining her,you're gettig in the middle of their marital problems.Make distance between the two of u or lose a friend.
2006-07-16 22:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy...it is okay your friend be in a relationship with your wife?
You don't love his wife, you just feel attracted by her. Just remember after the respect is lost you won't never have it back, not the same way.
2006-07-16 22:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the wife... you don't want to be the one who splits up a marriage. The reason his wife "loves" you is because your friend is not doing what he needs to do as a husband to make her feel like she's all he needs and vise versa. You need to stay away from the wife and let your friend rekindle their love for each other.
2006-07-16 22:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by ddiscostu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was kinda in the same situation (only I'm female and it was my husbands friend) Best advice ..... Keep your distance that is his wife and his life you are about to screw up. If she wants to mess around maybe you should be a good friend and let him know instead of you being the one he catches her with.
2006-07-16 22:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far away from that woman as quickly as you can. A roll in the hay is not worth all the pain and misery that it will cause. If he is your friend you will not do anything with this woman!!!!!
There are millions and millions of women who would love to have someone love them. Go find one and leave the married woman ALONE. She does not respect herself, you or her husband. Is that the kind of person you want to be with?
2006-07-16 22:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a vacation and sleep on it for a few days. Eventually the feeling will pass because deep down you couldn't stand betraying your friend.
2006-07-16 22:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by ujenfo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a question of Honor. do you have any? if yes then you will respect your friend and stay away. You will not be the only person to have loved from a far. Be strong grit your teeth and hold tight to your honor. if it was meant to be then a way will open if not then it wont.
2006-07-16 22:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by mabthewolfqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be kidding - right?
This is not what you would want to do - unless you want your friend to disregard you for the rest of your life - and his wife - well, you never will know who she will be with in a year or so?!
2006-07-16 22:29:57 · answer #11 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋