She has ruined her life and my life, she drinks and lies and has never been with the same man for more than a month. I am sick of her lies and her drinking and using and sick of her pushing stuff on me, how can I get her out of my life without losing my sanity?
2006-07-16 22:14:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
assuming that u are both adults, u need to make the decision as to if a relationship with her is worth the crap she puts u through. example: I don't approve of some things in my mom's life, but right now, i'm fixing to have child, etc..., and am willing to keep her as part of my life. I just choose carefully as to what days i go to her house and choose other parts of my life to keep seperate from her. i'll keep her at a distance, but i'm simply not willing to cut all contact with her just yet.
But if u have other relatives to fill the void so to speak, and u don't benifit from keeping contact with her at all, it may be easier to cut all ties to her and let her know why and maybe when she straightens out life, she will understand. just keep in mind that if ur mom is getting older, would u regret not spending time with her if she were to pass?
is there a dad to talk to?
Just some thoughts to ponder - no real answers, ultimately its ur decision, just stay safe and if ur mom is in serious trouble, there are places to get her help too (if she will consider this, maybe have a family intervention).
good luck!
2006-07-16 22:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by ebabsto 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sexysam2.5 after reading all your questions it sounds and looks like you really need to put the brakes on your life and really think about starting a new life. Your mothers a drunk and a liar. Your husband is a drunk and violent. You want to have 3 kids after "your no good lazy husband gets his GED". Insert laundry list of other problems here. Lastly you're worried that people are impersonating you on yahoo. You need to get off the computer and get away from these people. Asking strangers on the Internet questions isn't really going to help you, as other people have already told you.
2006-07-17 05:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone drinks in your life dont they...MOVE
2006-07-17 05:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a sad human being, shame on you! this is an impersonator!
2006-07-17 15:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by tictak kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move...far away, and don't give out your new address/phone number.
2006-07-17 05:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Adalina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand, understand, understand...
it would be a "pogi" points in heaven
anyway with the kind of lifestyle she has, she won't live long
2006-07-17 05:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by laarni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to another city.
what are you waiting for?
2006-07-17 05:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋