My boyfriend was the best thing to happen to meTho he sold drugs,he helped me financially, mentally and spirituallHe is the reason I'm in college.My Mom(drug addict prostitute)would see him in public & run &hug him,my mom told every1 that he was her 'Son-inLaw', and my sisters proudly told ppl that he was 'bro-My family stood behind our love100% or so i thought
He was murdered in Sept. After his murder my family becam destructive during my grievin, I dont have a car, so I depended on my mom to take me2the funeral. Instead she never came home that night and I had to PAY my aunt 2 take me 2funeral. None of my family hugged or comforted during the funeral, My aunt just said 'Everything happen 4a reason and told me 2 HANG IN THERE'
When i talk about him 2 my lil'sisters they act ask if they are uninterested got in an argument with my mom and lilsister and they both were saying"Im glad that dope-dealin muthafucka is dead.I hope u burn in hell wit him!"
WHAT 2 DO WHEN U HAVE NO-ONE!
2006-07-16 22:12:23 · 10 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My boyfriend showed nothing but respect to my mom and my lilsisters. He would give them advice about boys, and treated them like they were his little sisters.
He was a perfect gentleman to my mother.
he and i never argued,
The only person who supports me now is his mom, and I just cant tell her the things my familys says about me and most importantly her son!
I JUST DON'T KNOW WHERE THIS SUDDEN HATE 4 HIM AND OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS CAME FROM.
2006-07-16 22:17:45 · update #1
He and a guy got into an argument and the guy stabbed him seven times, (Twice in the lungs, 3 times in the stomach and a fatally deep stab in the heart (I swear I feel each and evryone of those stabs everyday) My mom recently told me 'I wish u were born dead, as a matter of fact, I'll kill u myself, I'll just stab u 7 times!" and started laughing.
2006-07-16 22:24:53 · update #2
First of all JESUS is the best thing that ever happened to you. I just want to say stay in prayer Because if GOD pulls you to it he can pull you through it! As far as your family goes pray for them too. Because they need it a whole lot more than you do! They say when you are down the closest ones to you will kick you and now that he is gone he can't support them anymore. They must have felt this way about you all along and you were probably in denial. Sometimes we don't want to believe that our own parents can dislike us so much, but it is possible (been there done that) now that he is gone they feel like oh yeah, she needs us now so let's treat her like trash. But little do they know joy comes in the morning so leave them to figure out their own mess. You work on you and find strength in The LORD to bring this to pass. You will be alright because God never puts more on us than we can bare. This is your storm girl this too shall past. Now you just keep on praying and living. Find someone to talk to. Don't hold this in it only leaves room for heartache and pain. Stress is the #1 silent killer don't fall victim to it. If there is no one to talk to where you are from go on-line and enter into a chat room and start chatting. You will be surprised to find out how much easier it is to talk to a stranger than to someone you know. Good luck and may GOD bless and keep you always!
2006-07-16 22:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that you just have to say forget them an do what you do if he was paying your way through school he must of wanted you to go so stay in school an get yo stuff together so when you do come up you can look back an say you did it all by your self with out the support of them Gurl keep yo head up no matter if he is dead hes always there look out for you So do what you do an do it to the best of your ability
2006-07-17 05:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by miss. k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through something similar situation and can tell you that you have to cut your family out of your life. You will have to find other people to support you and look forward to them being the ones to help you in your time of need. You have been handed a tough row to hoe but you have to do it.
I really dont know what to tell you except I can be contacted and am more than listen to you. Sometimes thats all you need.
Be strong, Sweetie :)
2006-07-17 20:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes U have to just work things out on your own.....What doen't kill U makes U stronger, so never give up cause even though it doesn't seem like it now life will get better.
2006-07-17 05:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy_Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All yr family are walking in wrong street. Be logic and find a way to not be like yr mum in future.
2006-07-17 05:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God can not be so cruel , just wait and watch , one should be mature and bold enough to experience trouble times in life , I am confident and sure you are getting very soon have faith in yourself .Concentrate your mind in study or work .
2006-07-17 05:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart this is the only answer I would even consider giving you:
Our Father in heaven hallowed be thy Name, Thy kingdom come Thy will be done, in us on earth as it is heaven. Father I ask that you get all over this situation that Your child is involved with. I ask that you protect her mind, body and soul.
I ask in Jesus' name that You dispatch Your angelic hosts to keep watch over her 24-7. I ask that You reveal Yourself to her through Your precious Holy Spirit. Father I ask that You build up what others have torn down in her with their words, deeds and actions.
I ask that You renew her mind. Give her Your heart of flesh that would lead her to repentance and accepting Christ as her personal Lord and Savior. Have mercy on her Lord, help her to get through this difficult time in her life. Let her know in a real way Lord that You love her and desire that she comes to You so that You can restore to her what satan has taken from her.
We ask that You restore to her the joy of Your salvation in her life. Father I ask that You do a "quick" work on her mother's heart and spirit. Father I ask that You would give her mother a contrite spirit with a broken heart so that she would ask: "what must I do to be saved?"
We thank You Father, we bless Your holy name Jesus. We ask that everything we asked of You Father would be done expediently, so this young lady can enter into Your peace that surpasses all of man's understanding.
These things we ask in Thy Loving Son's Name,
Jesus of Nazareth! Amen!! and Selah(so be it)!!
2006-07-17 06:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by blakelycollierbrown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
such a pathetic story just believe in yourself, i understand how you feel for a word of encouragement is all you need in the darkest moment of your life, my dear Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal !move on, just move. best of luck
2006-07-17 05:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry. Man.
2006-07-17 05:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live by the gun, you die by the gun
2006-07-17 05:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋