I slept with a woman during a 3 some with my hubby, does that make me a lesbian
2006-07-16 21:45:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
wasnt it great, i dont think it makes you a lesbian, it makes you bi sexual if you liked it and if youd do it again. i have been with my guy for 11 years now and i have had a few girl friends...
2006-07-16 21:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rock N Roll Saved My Soul 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
No it doesn't but just because you enjoyed your experience with your hubby and another woman, would you feel the same if it were you and two men, that wouldn't make you or your hubby GAYS. You enjoyed the experience and if you two want to do that again it is up to you. What does hubby say to the fact that you enjoyed the experience.
2006-07-17 09:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you treat that other woman as nothing more then a sex toy, poor woman. What a set back for women's rights. Your not a lesbian or bisexual. You are just uneducated.
2006-07-17 13:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just bi-curious. If you end up having a need to be involved to another woman then your definitely bisexual. If you just do it for 3somes with your hubby, and he enjoys it more than you... than your still hetero. that sounds wierd but remember, your sexuality can only be defined by you, you determine your needs and desires... and your sexuality.
2006-07-17 05:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by ddiscostu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you fooled around with a woman.
Presumably you find men attractive (you did marry...). If you can also find women sexually attractive (can they make you horny - just looking at them?) then you are Bi.
To be a lezza you'd have to not find men at all attractive - and only go for the women...
Take care that bringing someone else to your bed doesn't affect your marriage. Otherwise, practise it safely and enjoy it !
2006-07-17 06:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a lable I'd say bisexual. But until you no longer find men at all attractive you are definately NOT a lesbian!
2006-07-17 14:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put a label on it, If you had a good time. Go for it, Pleasure is getting to be a rare experience in this world. LOL Don't worry about it. Enjoy.
2006-07-17 09:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it substitutes in your mind as being better than the alternative of being with the opposite sex. Otherwise your just feeling something natural but not necessarily a good thing. Just remember sex is not love.
2006-07-17 04:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is "kinda." Unless it was life altering sex then I would say, no, you are not a Lesbian. I wouldn't even say you were Bisexual.
2006-07-17 17:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Girasol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you do it twice with out the hubby.
2006-07-17 17:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by 0219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you, well that makes you bi, not lesbian, but I much know has I herd that you gonna want to do it again.
2006-07-17 16:21:45 · answer #11 · answered by Evita L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋