i'm a coward.i cant face situations.i always run away from problems.?

Question

i never call back my friends or gf sometimes for no reason when they give me calls. they think im arrogant but i just have an aversion for no particular reason. what do i do?

most of my friends barely call me anymore.

i dont think i even have a gf anymore

Answer 1

I have the same problem, Im not good at facing situations and i do run away from problems dont call yourself a coward just take it one step at a time try to force yourself to do it and if you cant maybe talk with someone about it
Hope it all works out
God bless you

Answer 2

The first step in dealing with any problem, is understanding it. Why is it, the way it is? Meaning, you have to identify why you are scared or why you feel the need to avoid certain things. This takes time and isn't very easy.

It's common for people to surpress their feelings or the root of their feelings. What you have to do, before any thing else, is to deal with one thing at a time. The next time you feel fear for some thing, stop and think to yourself, "what is scaring me"? It's difficult to confront your fears but unless you do, you will be a slave to your fear, forever. That's some thing you don't want to do.

So, identify the root of your feelings toward any given problem. Ask your self the right questions. The right questions are, the questions that make you think hard. You're likely to have burried the answers in an attempt to further avoid confronting hardship.

There's some thing I've learned in my life and it's served me well; in order to do any thing, you must first convince your self that it is worth all the effort and discomfort. Without first coming to this realization, you will never do any thing. You will never do what is necessary, given you don't convince your self that it's worth your time.

When you are able to understand your feelings about some thing, you are then ready to deal with it. You must realize, however, this will not be without fear and anxiety. But know this, you will need courage and courage is not acting without fear, it is acting despite your fears. You act because you know you are better off. So what I'm really getting at is, you have to know and believe that confronting your problems is good for you; it's the best way. Then you are free to tackle any problem.

Once you've acknowledged your problem and identified it and realized you must fix it, for your own good, then it is time to start fixing it. Fixing the problem is specific and there is no general way to fix any one problem. There is, however, a method.

I think it would be a good idea to confide in some one you can trust and try to sort through your thoughts. It helps to get a second oppinion and to bounce ideas off of others, as well as to get ideas from others.

Answer 3

you may want to see a counselor and see if they can help you figure out why you are like this.. i know this is one of the last things you want to do.. maybe you should try making yourself return their calls...be nice, and take one day and a time and maybe you will get more courageous as time goes on..

Answer 4

I run too, and I piss people off doing it. I'm starting to realize, you can't go through life running away even though its soo much easier. it always hurts someone and produces negative karma your way.

Answer 5

Why u miss such happiness to be with yr friends? having friends is easy but hard to keep them. you may face a day that u have no friends.

Answer 6

grow up and start being a man and taking some responsibility

Answer 7

sometime a man has to be a man and be left alone dude. its what keeps us sane. no problems with that

Answer 8

keep on running till u realise yr mistake,dude.

Answer 9

You have to grit your teeth and just do it because at some point you will have to confront things.

Answer 10

You're just an introvert. I am, they can either love you for what you are or move on.