I have been with my child's father for 1 year and 9 months and all of this stuff started happening like old girlfriends coming over in his room and calling and texting . And abuse toward me when I was pregnant and when I wasn't . Some people claim they saw him with another girl and a lot more other stuff. My mom warn me and sister no wait my whole family but he seem great at first it changed when i got pregnant . I keep on running back to him begging almost for us to be together because he broke up with me, he has did it more than 5 times. I tried sometimes to express my feeling and he would either walk off or hang up the phone. And our lil girl he puts everything before her he got mad one time because he had to buy milk ...??? He told me that we were in the way and also always said I didn't ask for her (our lil girl) all the times . He had never held my hand in public or kiss me either. So on that part I told him we would just leave him along and said he couldn't see her anymore?
2006-07-16 20:50:54 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Lonelygirl4u♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It just takes time. Full your life with joy and family. Your daughter needs you the most now. No matter how much you want to get back with him, you have to put it aside and think of your daughter. But to tell you the truth, this stuff, you can't really get over. There will always be this little place in your heart that loves him, but for the meantime, when you haven't moved on, fill your life with joy and happiness. Dont' waste your time with this guy when he clearly does not deserve you. You seem to be a wonderful mother and wants the best for your family. Just take it easy and know that I support you in changing your life. Show him you don't need him, that means move out of city and start working and supporting your daughter. If he is a wise guy, he will see what he is missing out, but if not, like my father, then you will still be good without him, in fact, you will be great and find the RIGHT man...Good luck!
2006-07-16 20:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-08 00:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so this guy has been abusive, VERY abusive to you. He has no love or feelings for this child you have with him. He has cheated, probably endless times with other women. Were you guys ever married? He has clearly stated you were in his way. Maybe you were in the way for him to stop being a complete idiot!
After everything I mentioned, what's hard about dropping this jerk? I know you have feelings for him, duly noted. But he has nothing to offer but more abuse and heartache. He has no love for the baby. Move on, as hard as it may seem, so you can find happiness with someone else. Get yourself to to D.A office, and slap his no good **** with a child support suit. It will teach him responsibility, and maybe he can keep it in his pants, or think twice before jerking someone else around. You will be doing him a favor, trust me. Don't give in, no matter what a jerk he becomes, and not for a minute believe he wants you back, if he mentions dropping to case.
Stand your ground, for your baby's sake and well being. Look out for baby who is number one. Good luck.
2006-07-16 21:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This father is not a responsible person. And if you keep running behind him, he'll keep running from you.
My advice for you is to make a stand, tell him all about his irresponsibility and selfishness and just walk away.
If he returns to you, then you got back what you wanted and your gilr will see ahppy parents. And if he didn't come back, then he's the one who lost you adn his little girl. He's the looser and you'll be happier without him.
Remember: an end with a pain is better than an endless pain.
2006-07-16 21:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by toon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, your going to have to move on and find someone that will treat you better than that, keep your child away from him because you don't want her to be attached to someone who doesn't want to be and her life and that will hurt you and her in the long run. Leaving someone you love is never easy and your not going to feel better over night its a slow and painful process but one day you will be over it , but in the mean time you should just push him out of your lives and move on.
2006-07-16 20:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by PYT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is not good to you. Many people around you who love you have been trying to tell you this.
I think the best way to get over this person is - honestly - to date someone else casually. Only that way will you learn that you don't have to take this kind of abuse to be with someone... because you don't!
2006-07-16 21:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by philosopheria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to let someone go. Especially in your situation. You do not need someone like that. Who will treat you so bad. Raise your daughter by yourself. Have you closest friends near to comfort you. Someday you might find someone who wants to be in your life and you daughters life. I wish the best to you.
2006-07-16 20:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jeana G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good ...dump the sob and get him to partake in a little child support.
If he can't do that they will take him to jail and then who will text him.
No one and he be getting pounded in the a$$ just like what he deserves.
He's a clown
2006-07-16 20:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who respescts you and knows how to treat you for now concentrate on being the best mommy you can be you already got the best part of him a baby
2006-07-16 20:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. Its over. No more boo-hooing over this ***-hole. I have been in a realtionship with my ex for 5 years, and i have erase him from my completely. I have 4 kids with him, and he has not seen nor paid any support for his kids, so try and get support from him, and just get over it. GAME OVER, LIFE GOES ON FOR YOU, THINK ABOUT YOUR SELF AND HOW TO MAKE YOUR SELF HAPPY AGAIN WITH OUT HIM AROUND .
mary_parenteau@yahoo.ca
2006-07-16 20:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by mary_parenteau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋