almost once a week I have a dream about my boyfriend cheating on me. its never the same dream, but he always cheats on him with someone I know (in my dreams) he has cheated on me once before(2 years ago) and it almost killed me.... when I have this dreams I wake up with very high axniety and I question him about his faithfulness alot... we havent even dealt with him cheating on me.. he never wants to talk about it.. what do i do!? I know I cant controll my dreams but I really want to get over this!
2006-07-16 20:18:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have those dreams about my bf also but i try not to let it get to me because what he do in the dark always come to the light so if when you ask him he denies it the just say ok and start paying close attention to everything he say and do .......trust me he will tell on himself if he's doing anything wrong he's a guy and well........they can't help it, they don't know how to not get caught
2006-07-16 20:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater if you ask me you'll never really trust him anymore once those boundaries are crossed between two people it will never be the same the reason your dreaming about it is because in your gut you know he'll do it again if he isn't now what you need to do is let things go if you plan on staying with him you need to trust him until you can you'll continue to have negative thoughts my advice to you is don't expect to much that way if he does do it again you won't be so surprised
2006-07-17 03:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound to be very stressed about the issue of cheating around your boyfriend, and now it's creating a lot of anxiety for you. and it's coming up in your dreams because you think about it that much. no doubt since the issue hasn't been dealt with yet. you need to set a boundary with him to say that you need to talk about this because it's causing alot of anxiety for you. if he still doesn't want to address the issue, he doesn't really like or respect you much. then you need to decide if he is worth having you and if there are other guys who can treat you better. if he's cheated on you before, it's easier for him to do it again.
2006-07-17 03:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some psychologists believe that dreams are the manifestations of our own joys and wished as well as our fears and anxieties. If you recently have had some feelings that he's been cheating or someone had cheated on you before than these dreams, movies of your subconscience, are just acting on these feelings and experiences.
2006-07-17 03:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by theauthor445 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a dream about my boyfriend cheating on me, but i always have ****** up dreams when i take melatonin.
he should be sorry for cheating on you and you need to do whatever you can to deal with it.
when you dream, it's your mind's way of organizing things, and maybe it's because your mind is still upset about that unresolved issue and youre still nervouse because since you HAVENT dealed with this situation thats been eating you up inside, you havent been able to renew your trust for him....
have a heart to heart talk with him and if he can't do that then i would take a good look at your relationship.
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2006-07-17 03:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by emily h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a brother, my advice is if you believe u love him otherwise leave him. This is because, with a dream as cheater you can't love him or go with him, by marrying him if the dream comes again as the same what will be his problem, you and your boy friend's life will become problematic. Kindly think now and act wise. I don't say leave him, just talk with him about it freely.
2006-07-17 03:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by E.D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreaming about it because you neve dealt with it. It's your minds way of dealing. You need to talk to him and get it out in the open. If he's not willing to talk, then he's probably not truly sorry. Make him talk or make him get out. It's the only way to stop the dreams.
2006-07-17 03:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by shynomore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It maybe a sign!Okay maybe the first time would be your "mind getting over it"but continuous something is wrong,ask him what's up or snoop around in a very little way like in his phone,nothing to obvious that if not you would seem dumb and basically hurt yourself.Trust yourself,be careful!
2006-07-17 04:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by None 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a dog always a dog...catch the hint!
2006-07-17 03:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by jojekier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did **** someone else it was probably your best freind. If you live in los angeles, I'll take time to to **** your brains out
2006-07-17 04:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by charles f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋