i need help before i go crazy with my guy who looks at other females right in front of me when we are driving around town or in stores he no longer ahs an interest in me pleases help thank you.
2006-07-16 19:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by rotten_rosie62 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Rotten Rosie, your guy is still interested in you...he's just developed a really bad habit thats becoming a sore spot.
Tell him straight up that he's doing this and it bothers you...
his lack of attention and disinterest in you is bothersome and beginning to make you feel unloved.
if he still doesn't get it...time to invest in a ball bat.
2006-07-16 19:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu Has asked Nice Quistion and it is really Paining u inside,, and why SOME are giving totally Negative answers,, ofcourse few are giving Good answers,, But 1st try to give some Positive thaughts and one should get some Good Suggestions,, why suddenly Jump into Conclusions of giving the Marriage,,,As Far as Your Position is concerned I too just say as the 1st answer,,
Good Luck and Discuss everything Openely,, and u Love your Guy more than anything,, and u cannot Imagine him Looking at others,, Discuss Openly will be the best thing,,
2006-07-17 03:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by joy_joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rosie, How long have you been together? Has your appearance changed since then? All men look at women, it is normal behavior. Some do it subtly others are more open, but we all look. If you haven't dressed as sexy as you did when you first got together, then try that, I am sure he will notice other men looking at you! although he may not want you to see him show it. He may start moving closer to you if he sees you getting attention from other men even if they only look
If you have gained weight or lost self respect, do things that allow you to feel good about yourself. If you start caring about your appearance, or change you style into what you want it to be. You will be the one that will be getting the glances.
You might talk to him to see what he is wanting you to do, change the way you dress or start wearing make-up when you are out in public,or loose weight to keep his attention. You should let him know how much you love him and want to be whatever he is looking for in other women.
Then again it may be that His self esteem needs some outside input to reassure him that he is still desirable. So if he can get one good looking girl to smile back, it can help his Ego. If he doesn't feel Important in his life, you might try to let him know how much you need him in yours.
2006-07-17 03:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by eudaemon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him how you feel, or do a surprise thing like I usually do with my guy when I catch him checking girls out, 'Wow she has big boobs, I wonder if they're fake?' If he knows you know he's checking out chicks it'll either stop because he's embarassed to get caught or he'll comment back, when he does comment back tell him how you feel about him checking girls out in front of you. While you're at it ask if he's still interested in you or not. Than take it from there and figure it out rather you still want to be with him or not.
2006-07-17 03:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your concerns. Open conversation is very healthy in a relationship. He may not even be aware that he isn't giving you the attention that you need.
2006-07-17 02:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bitsy Fairview 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is no longer interested in you and is so obvious about it I say you dump him.
2006-07-17 02:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thers nothing wrong with looking as long as he isnt touching. dont you look at other guys . if it bothers you talk to him
2006-07-17 02:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him, if he doesn't respect you it's not worth being in a relationship with him.
2006-07-17 02:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by alifox40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry...he already lost interest in you...move on..hes not worth it..
2006-07-17 02:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by viki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋