2006-07-16 19:02:02 · 16 answers · asked by Melanie 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
~just breathe~ write down your thoughts....it really does help!!!!
2006-07-16 19:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
The real maker of ones'life is the chance. The human struggle for a better ,more satisfying life ,can t control much of what happens, in general terms.
If you re down, for a whatever reason, along with the typical self blaming reaction, consider the world outside like a game or a play. Stare at how people act stupid some times.and have a good laugh a it.
Then the play can become more joyful.
Best luck to you.
2006-07-17 07:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by yukasdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and it's not pretty but the Lord works in mysterious ways... I find that once the wave of anger/ bitterness/ doubt clears, I'm able to have a clear perspective on what needs to be done along with the answers I've been looking for right there in front of me.
Be assured that you're not alone, that this moment too shall pass and that not all hope is lost. Be strong but you must be willing to take that first step.
Once you make that first step you can work your way to bigger leaps and strides.
Hoped this helped. Best of Luck & God Bless.
2006-07-17 02:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Melanie, we all have those moments when we just feel overwhelmed.
You can survive this too, but it isn't bad to ask for help.
Have you called ahotline? A friend? Your parents?
Is there a counsellor you can talk to at school tomorrow?
What ever the problem is, if you can just make it one more day and the day after that and so on, the further you are away from it, the smaller the problem will be. I promise, it will get better. It may not be perfect but it will be better.
2006-07-17 02:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Diana D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure of specific situation you are in but here is what I can say:
a) Many times we visualize/imagine the impact of hardship/problems much bigger than it actually is by narrowing our focus on it. Think big which will make problem look smaller.
b) It will be harder for you if you don't accept the outcome of the situation. Many times you can't control or change the outcomes. Accept it and don't let this destroy your happiness.
c) Ability in human beings to deal with hardship is enormous. Some of us exercise this strength and some of us don't. If you go soft on "I want this" and "I must have this" and "I can't take this" which will give you power to recover from impact. Develop a sense of stability and inner happiness which will shield you from unnecessary disturbance coming from daily events.
d) If you trust in GOD, hardship is only a way of GOD to test our faith in GOD and our committment for values of life. Stay steady on it and GOD WILL give you strength to overcome the hardship.
e) If you believe in Karma: It is ultimately your Karma that play different games in your life. Only way you can get rid of it by going through the pain and adopting good values/practices in life. More you try to avoid, more painful it is going to be.
2006-07-17 02:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by RKM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes...
Positive pictures come out from negatives developed in a dark room. So if you find yourself lonely and in the dark, understand that LIFE is working on a beautiful picture for you...
2006-07-17 02:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by lisette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can't be handled. It just happens. So relax and let it pass by around you. The toll a certain situation takes on you is all about how you react to it.
2006-07-17 11:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every1 gets this feeling...it's not xactly hard to handle, u look at it in a way that it makes u think its hard to handle...in life, it's very important to see that u have enough control over ur life to see that no1 else makes u feel like ur life's hard for u....being optimistic abt everything is wat helps u here...there might have been times in ur past wen u felt like u cant ever get over a certain situation but now, if u look bak, its over, its past, its history...the same way, wen u look bak at this tomorrow, it'll feel the same way..just think that this is a chance for u to have a new outlook on life......be optimistic....life is not so hard to handle wen u know that theres sumthing good tomorrow waiting for u.....:)
2006-07-17 02:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by teddybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't really want to be overrun by aspects of life that depresses you... Strive for achievements and if you can, ignore the little problems of life....
2006-07-17 02:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath.......and dont kill urself!!!! i was in the same position not that long ago and i went into a deep depression and it was all cuz of my stupid brother cuasing a lot of stress and anger but trust me wen i say it'll all get better soon!!!!! just keep ur cool and u'll be fine!!!!
2006-07-17 02:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know this as well. Hopefully you are attractive and you can replace your ill feelings with lots of sex.
2006-07-17 09:23:14 · answer #11 · answered by holdcauf01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋