I am a man and would like to chat with a woman in her 30's to help me with my difficult marriage / be a friend

Answer 1

TALK TO YOUR WIFE....... FACE TO FACE for at least one hour a week. Order in the family solves a lot of stuff...... even if you have messed up you are still the boss or at least the one to blame if things are not going good. Talking to another woman will not help you fix your marriage..... they will give you opinions that might work for this time but you need to be the man and make some weekly goals for you and your wife. \\ list what the problems are on a sheet of paper. tell her you would like to discuss these areas with her and that it needs to be face to face. address the issues and ask her to help you work through the issues. Nobody is perfect... the best time to address some tough things is while out to dinner at a nice eatery. Honestly if you cannot talk to her and if you give up and expect to get the answer from someonelse then you must get a grip and show her that you are a leader by doing just what was mentioned before. Ask her to list what she finds hard to deal with you...... and to be honest. Now you must be cool with what she writes and work your butt off at changing this. MACHO? VELVET GLOVE COVERING AN IRON FIST is the way to treat a lady.......not iron fist and I am too good for that and too big to be a gentleman. It all starts with you guy. Take inventory of how you are acting and change...... list a few things that you will not tolerate and how you plan to change things then follow thru.Women are to be in charge of the relationship, family and home not the household....... your the King.....treat her like a queen. Buy a dozen roses of her favorite color...... or red if she does not have a preference......and spend one hour a week doing something she likes or loves to do. WORK AT IT AND IT WILL WORK.

YOU WILL DO FINE....... YOU ARE A TEAM... FIGHT YOUR PROBLEMS TOGETHER LIKE SUCH. WIN TOGETHER!!! CELELBRATE TOGETHER.

Answer 2

Yo, Mr. Macho, the last one you need to talk to is another woman about problems in your marriage, unless it's the woman you are having trouble with! A professional counselor would be ideal. However, I think I can read between the lines here. A man seriously looking for help doesn't need to talk with another woman, unless he is actually seeking for a sympathetic "booty call"! Good try, with the "sad sack" looking avatar!

Answer 3

You need to see a psychologist or a marriage Guidance Counsellor along with your wife.
Trying to get free advice from ladies is a sleezy way to go about it.

It sounds like your relationship has outgrown both of you..so either work at it...with her....or give her her freedom.

You are trying to start an affair so you can then leave your wife...leave her first and then look for a replacement...

Answer 4

I am in my 30's as well and I am going thru some tuff times check my myspace out and I will chat with you if you need a friend I know how that is

Answer 5

why only a woman.if you just want a friend.it can be man or woman.not just woman.meaning you have bad intentions and just say you want an affair.well,only an idiot will respond to your pleas.instead of crying out to the world and making an *** of your self,why dont you humble yourself and cry out to the woman you love,your wife.

Answer 6

I'm in my 30s and I'm sure I can relate to the difficulties you're having.

Answer 7

i am a little older than 30 but i am a good friend and listener if that's all you need well i am all ears

Answer 8

Im not 30, but I do give very good advice about things, im told so alot, so if you want spill it to me.

Answer 9

Better u dont put other woman in the same difficulty.

Answer 10

Sorry, not in my 30's but definetly know how you feel and what you are going through.~