depending on what kind of porn is who your spouse could cheat on with or are you ok with them watching it?
2006-07-16 18:15:32 · 23 answers · asked by lady heather 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are lot of guys who watch porn and don't cheat...porn is male fantasy. Some women who think porn is icky have no problem with a good "bodice-ripper"...you know, one of those "novels" that features Fabio on the cover and has lots of "swelling bosoms" and "engorged sex" in it. They feel it is somehow not dirty (even though it is thoroughly about sex) because it is about romantic sex, and that tends to be what turns women on more than just the act. But porn is pictures, not words, so it's a little easier to villify it. Consider: how many times have you heard that porn creates "unreal expectations" (girls with 80DDDD breasts and 18" waists and the like). Maybe it does. That seems to me to be somewhat the nature of fantasy: it's beyond normal. The reasoning goes that this ruins men for normal relationships. Maybe it does. But if so, I'll show you a line of men that have been judged "inferior" by the women in their lives who were raised on romantic comedies and romance novels...and the "normal" men they're dating or married to cannot live up their romanticized notion of what a man ought to be. In either case, fantasy is great provided you realize that's what it is: fantasy. You don't still believe in unicorns, do you?
2006-07-16 20:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Nate P 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think alot of men love to watch porn and never consider cheating on their spouse. I believe they just like the excitement it brings.
Watch it with him. It can be fun and quite stimulating. Even though we are wives and mothers.... We can still be quite the fantasy ladies they dream about. It maybe that he might get soooo interested in the real thing, that he forgets about the movies. lol
2006-07-16 18:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by ND M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, come on. Let the poor guy watch a little porn. If anything, he could learn some new stuff for the bedroom.
Trust me, porn does not mean he's "cheating" on you.
2006-07-16 18:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Stryker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my husband, but it is not something that I am ok with him doing.
I feel cheated when he watches porn because he is looking at another woman in a way that he should only be looking at me.
Sex is something very special and I think that porn defrauds it
and cheapens it to just something taht you can watch any time.
If he has needs, he knows he can come to me anytime. :)
2006-07-16 19:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you're actually not incorrect in any respect, i think of it is slightly plenty. this could be slightly very own yet do yall nonetheless have intercourse? If no then i could have a intense communicate if I have been you, ask him if hes unhappy with yalls intercourse existence or if there's a undeniable reason he needs to computer screen different women human beings all the time, it is no longer some thing i could publish with yet you may desire to make that decision on your man or woman possibly recommend even observing it jointly like one night a week, i'm hoping this facilitates sturdy success!
2016-11-02 04:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to watch porn WITH mine. LOL. Maybe if you could watch it together, maybe go the store and pick one out that you both like, and watch it together, or maybe get one that you like that you can watch. I don't see how a guy watching porn=cheating, that's like saying masterbating is cheating. Let him watch his.
2006-07-16 18:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching porn has no effect on me thinking my husband is going to cheat on me, quite the opposite!! That wouldn't worry me at all!!
2006-07-16 18:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by prettyinpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn is cheating if its done alone or has become an obsession. theres no reason 4 anyone 2 need it if they r really into u unless its something u do 2gether ONCE IN A WHILE.
2006-07-16 18:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes me and my wife don't mind if either one watches porn it is better that way and either one could finger herself or I could Jack off. In fact we encourage one another to do so if and when I get deployed to Iraq. Then to cheat on one another both of our formers cheated on the both of us.
2006-07-16 18:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by ZigZag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is looking at gay porn or teen porn then you need to be worried. If it is just regular porn watch it with him. Then he will be fulfilling his fantasies with you. Sometimes this actually works.
2006-07-16 19:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋