Please i am confused about where i should go in my life. I am in a defacto relationship with 2 beautiful children. We have been together for 10 years and I am afraid that I dont love him anymore. I m a at home mother and dont know where to go from here. He is very sooky and he never wants to do anything. His family is finding it hard to have a decent conforsation with him. Whats his problem and what should I do?
2006-07-16 18:05:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have children to raise. Assuming you are not being abused, struck, the kids aren't being hurt, getting into some family counceling might help your relationship. Don't think I'd dump a 10 year relationship, just because it was boring, find some help. All relationships age, and need help, yours is no different.... Don't be so willing to jump outa the frying pan into the fire.... the grass isn't greener, honey, it is lonely. Fix your relationship first.....
2006-07-16 18:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he may be having a rough time at work. If he is the only one working then he maybe stressed out over money. He more than likely feels like you in a rut and don't know what to do about it. Is it that you don't love him like if he was in a car wreck and was really hurt you wouldn't be upset or worried. Or is it you don't love him Oh he just makes me feel a giddy inside and I am the happiest person in the world. If he isn't cheating or beating you then try to seduce him. You are his wife. You have that right. plan an evening alone with him and just the two of you and see what happens. Slip him a note in his work pants that hints of a romantic night when he gets home. You can't read his mind and he can't read yours you need to look him in the eye and flat out ask him what is going on.
Good Luck
2006-07-17 01:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be asking him what his problem is. Maybe you need to express yourself more with him and communicate. Then you can go from there.
2006-07-17 01:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have selected and love him
then y hesitation?sit and talk to him frankly.u will succeed
2006-07-17 02:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by bondnara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you love him but it isn't worth hurting yourself or you need to just let him go
2006-07-17 01:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by mylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think anyone can answer that question for you, we dont know exactly how u feel, u kno?
2006-07-17 01:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by hejhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you picked him. Whats wrong is he too soft? no motivation?
2006-07-17 01:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and call me or email me
2006-07-17 01:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋