4 great sex after 19 yrs marriage
2006-07-16 18:03:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well depends if that is the only reason. 19 years is a long time. You have a lot invested in him. Your home your family your lifestyle. If he is abusive then no. If he is unfaithful then no. But if it is just because you feel that you have been together to long I would have to say that maybe you two should take a second honeymoon. Go out on a date once a week. Fall back in love with him. I would love to know that I could stay with my husband. You have something here if it ain't broke don't fix it.
2006-07-16 18:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all your staying for , no. Sex does not replace love, If your in love with someone you can have love and great sex. Find the love of your life and have both.
2006-07-17 02:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Glenda G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the only reason you are staying...I would ordinarily say no. However, if the sex is still that good after that many years, you may want to think twice.
2006-07-17 01:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still have great sex after 19 years then there is no reason to fix what isnt broken in my mind. today is my 9th anniversary and he didnt even acknowledge it and we have been in separate rooms for 4 years now....honey it sounds like you got it made!
2006-07-17 01:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by anginfla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and get yourself a man that you can have great sex with AND like being married to.
2006-07-17 01:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if there was also love and respect for one another. I would not just stay for good sex though. You can get good sex from somewhere else.
2006-07-17 01:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no how about you stay with him because he supported you for 19 yrs or better yet if you wanna leave then repay him for everything he ever bought you or spent on you then go
2006-07-17 01:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats the only reason your still with him i think you need to take a good long look into why you got married in the first place. if your heart isn't in it anymore, your not only hurting yourself but him as well....when/ if he figures out later that your heart isn't into it anymore he will also find out that his hwole life is a lie. try remebering why you got married, adn if you still fell the sametalk to him about it... be honest with him
2006-07-17 01:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I must say by dear, if you're married to this man, you must love him. And in that case there is no doubt that you should be with him. But by coming here and asking such a question would bring me to two conclusions. One, is that you don't love HIM you love his body. And two, is that you're a SLUT.
2006-07-17 01:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by HeartBreakAgony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sex is always plus- but if the marriage is unhealthy, then no...
2006-07-17 01:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋