2006-07-16 17:46:15 · 23 answers · asked by Lupe O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Romance her! Men tend to forget what they did to get the woman to begin with. Did you not date her, make her feel special, treat her nice and tell her she is beautiful and desireble? Of course you did. She will resist at first but if you truly start treating her like she is very sexy, maybe get her a new outfit, brag on her or just take out the trash when asked, you will be amazed at how things will turn around. Spruce yourself up too. You both are in a rut and haven't taken time for yourselves. Do it before it is too late. Whatever, you do for her, you most likely get back tenfold. Do you ever pay her a compliment or just do something nice just to show her how much shem means to you or do you take her for granted. Never take anything or anyone for granted because they could be gone tomorrow. Please remember why you both fell in love with each other in the beginning and try to go back to that wonderful time. People say you can't go back and maybe that is true to an extent but you can re create.
2006-07-16 17:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by aftermidnite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think you should do?
How long have you been married?
Are there health reasons?
You need to sit your wife down & have an honest, open conversation. Sex is what sets all other relationships apart. If you are not having sex on a regular basis, there is a big problem. You need counselling.
And if neither of you want to do that, then you both have to look at why you're in this relationship.
2006-07-17 00:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the two of you don't show each other love outside of the bedroom. Maybe there are some other underlying issues in your marriage that needs to be addressed. Tell your wife that you care about your marriage and ask her why she no longer feels like being intimate with you. I hope things work out for the two of you. GOD BLESS
2006-07-17 00:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate...in truth you already know the answere to your question...share...it with her
if the response is not as you would hope then it is up to you to either accept the vows or to act upon your own desires by rectifying an ovious mistake in YOUR life
2006-07-17 00:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by cellophanebirdcalls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for counseling together. If that doesn't work, or she won't go, you'll have to decide if you want a marriage without sex and go from there.
2006-07-17 00:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being romantic, try talking to her. There are so many things that could be contributing factors here, don't give up on her, be patient.
2006-07-17 00:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find you a new chick on the side. I promise you thats what she is doing remember this saying "if you aint getting it then someone else is "
2006-07-17 01:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate, unless you feel it is worth a ton of money to divorce her. then you still won't get sex because it will take months or years to find someone else.
2006-07-17 00:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Payne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not normal.
Time for a heart to heart with her to find out why.
After all i assume you two do love each other.
2006-07-17 00:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by profit0004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and get it somewhere else if she doesn't want it then thats her decision but she can't expect you to go without as well.
2006-07-17 07:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋