I fly off the handle and get crazy /mad and out of control at my husband who is being a huge *** to me lately. Is this harming my baby?
2006-07-16 17:39:40 · 15 answers · asked by beAn*s MoMmy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The baby feels everything you feel. Try some counceling as a couple or by yourself. It may help you so that you don't get to short tempered when the baby comes too. Try massage. It is very beneficial for stress.
2006-07-16 17:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can absolutely cause harm to the baby by succombing to stress. Why is your husband being mean to you, and why are you taking it?? You need to sit him down and let him know (when he's being nice) that you need extra care right now. Let him know that when he gets upset, it upsets you and that is harming the baby. Many babies are born after the mother had a stressful pregnancy and have alot of trouble with hypersensitivity to everything: being touched, food, noise, etc. You need to go somewhere in the house where it is quiet and do some meditation or just be alone each day for about an hour. It will do your stress level much good. If you're less stressed, chances are your husband will follow suit.
2006-07-16 19:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Starry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. It could lead to other problems as well--not just for your baby, but for you. It may not necessarily cause a miscarriage, but could lead to preterm delivery later on, and that would be even more stress. Check out some relaxation techniques such as yoga for pregnancy or other exercises. Talk to your doctor also and they can recommend some things for you-or possibly medication. If counseling with your hubby is an option maybe you should look into that. When the baby finally gets here, things could get worse. But I definitely--if nothing else--recommend talking to your doctor. Its better safe than sorry.
2006-07-16 17:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress of any kind is harmful to the human body. It raises your blood pressure and if you are pregnant anything that happens to you, happens to your unborn baby. Yes, it could very well cause one.
As for your husband, hon, you have a life to worry about. Your child is more important than stressing over how someone else acts. You arent ever gonna change him. You can only change yourself and learn to ignore all the bs in life. He isnt harming your baby, the blame lies within you. You have to learn to relax. There is always gonna be something that could cause you stress, if you let it.
2006-07-16 17:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of severe stress at the moment, like you in 4th month. I asked the doctor about it . She told me not so much to worry about the baby, nature protects the babies from too much stress, up to 90 percent of the stress is not felt by the baby. Actually, my doctor worried more about me!
So, do not worry too much, that only adds to your stress.
What helps me, is talking to the baby when the stress overwhelmes me. I tell it that I love it and protect it, that helps to cool down and makes me focus on the joy of having the baby.
Good luck, sister!
2006-07-17 13:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stress can be a factor in a miscarrage.
But I hope you're not going to get stressed out about BEING stressed out now. Try to find a way to relax, help minimize your worries and whatever.
2006-07-16 17:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by L-O-G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is not good for the baby. While you are haveing mood swings ..It comes along with the pregnacy. you should be feeling the baby move soon. It will first feel like a butterfly fluttering its wings. Or Quickening as the Drs. call it. Good luck with the new one. And don't get so up set..
2006-07-16 17:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by ole_lady_93 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Whatever you do, try not to stress out. This will cause harm to your unborn baby. He/she can feel stress, among other things, and it can't be good!
Try to mellow out (if possible) and not let your husband bother you so much!
Good luck with your future! :)
2006-07-16 17:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by jenniferj47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes stress can cause you to miscarry, just try to stay relaxed and calm
2006-07-16 17:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by midnightsmokerchic23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember if your stressed your babies stressed and yes it can cause miscarriages
Try and relax
2006-07-16 17:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by kayla_ann_simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋